2007-02-16 11:21:37 · 5 answers · asked by singlebratty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just tell people bit by bit.
And when you are ready.
2007-02-16 11:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would seem to me that you probably have already given off the fact that you are lesbian based on your personality etc.
I suspect most people would not be surprised.
Nowadays it is acceptable to be a lesbian, so telling your friends cant be difficult.
The hard part is telling your parents. I dont know the type of people they are so I couldnt necessarily advise any particular way of telling them.
It certainly doesnt hurt to say to friends and loved ones, that women are beautiful (no one can deny that, right?) and that you feel a closer bond with them emotionally, physically and spiritually.
They want you to be happy, and I suspect that if you convince them that you arent out to just pick up on chicks, and that you are looking for the right person, for your soul, they may not be so worried about it.
Making light and humor of an uncomfortable situation, will save your life thats for sure.
2007-02-16 19:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by Dawn H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know?
I have had times when I have felt that way but as a result of bad relationships however I have a daughter that is lesbian and I feel I still prefer men just can not find the one I need!
No problem with my daughter thought it was just a trial but it is not so i have to accept it I love my girl what ever !!
2007-02-16 19:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If yu feel you havent comeout of the sexuallity, it maybe that you havent fully accepted it yet. Talk to someone about it. Become more comfortable, then you will find yourself out of the closet.
2007-02-16 19:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by jason l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could ask another lesbian. i am a guy and straight, so i have no idea.
2007-02-16 19:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by hey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋