There is this girl who is totally fake, and all my friends like her and she is like taking them away from me. I tried talking to my friends but they said that its not true.
2007-02-16 10:44:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The only thing you can do is be patient. If this girl is phony and transparent, your friends will have to find out for themselves. If your friends choose to befriend this other girl, then maybe some of them are shallow. Let your friends make their decisions about this girl, if any of them have any character or substance, they wont be gone for long. Make sure though, that YOU are not passing judgment too quickly, and that you have basis for your opinion.
2007-02-16 11:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're just thinking she's fake because you're afraid that you'll lose your friends. Try to keep an open mind on her, and maybe ask if she would like to hang out sometime (with some other friends of course). Try being friends with her too, and dont judge her so quickly if she does something that you think is fake.
2007-02-16 10:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by Joshua T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem. But the next year in school i started talking to her and stuff. And she really wasnt that bad. And now we have been best friends for 4 years! Just talk to her and get to no her and maybe you will find that she is not a fake.
~*Hope this Helps*~
2007-02-16 10:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what you should do, but something similar happened to me in high school. There was this guy who was more or less my friend who would often try to take another friend from me. The next school year, however, he had completely changed, and we became good friends.
2007-02-16 10:54:46 · answer #4 · answered by Von Kempelen 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Prove it to them, of course theirs always the fake person, so ask her so many question and then re ask her or something maybe she changes her answer, or just wait until she makes a mistake and show ur friends, overall you have to prove it to them with something
2007-02-16 10:49:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My guess is you are a teenager so basically you have two choices:
1. Get over it and be friends with her as well...you might find the real person if you guys get close.
2. Dump your friends and find new ones.
It's entirely up to you. No one can make this decision for you.
2007-02-16 10:49:47 · answer #6 · answered by *<dEzI>* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Phoney people don't last. Just you keep your chin in the wind regardless friends come & go and true friends stick around.
I'll be your friend.
2007-02-16 10:50:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
how do u kno she is fake? do u have a reason or is it u want to think she is? if u have reasons tell them to ur friends. if not, give her a chance!
2007-02-16 10:49:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
They aren't very good friends if they would drop you for some other girl. I would find new ones if I were you.
2007-02-16 10:58:05 · answer #9 · answered by HereIAm 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
prove that she is fake and if that don't work now u know who ur true friends are.........
2007-02-16 10:49:34 · answer #10 · answered by kimmy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋