...its kinda personal...there's a lot of stuff goin around my school bout if people r straight, bi, or les...my friends have asked me mult. times cuz im not crushing on ne one and i've never had a bf...i've kept telling em im not les...but i m strting to think i am...for diff reasons....idk... hey..i've always been a tomboy and not into all the "frilly junk" like a lot of other girls...im really into sports..love trucks...and have had a crush on a fem. coach of mine who is lez..but idk if i am lez or not...i have been inappropriatly treated by a guy b4 and ever since, i cant even picture being involved w/ a guy at all...idk....help pls...umm..well its kinda hard to explain...the whole "bad experience with a guy" thing was with my friends cousin...he touched my friend and i very inappropriatly...and ever since i cant picture myself with a guy at all...then i had a crush on my fem. soccer coach who's a lez...and i havent had ne crushes or w/e towards guys...so idk...
2007-02-16 10:32:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Good for you now go get some and tell us how it was. I am so tired of these question. What can people tell you about yourself over the Internet and they have never even met you. GOSH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-16 10:37:55 · answer #1 · answered by qdeezy 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
if you feel attracted to a woman ur a lesbian but it seems u havent so far cept for ur coach. i read some where that sometimes when ur at a young age u fall in love with older people of the same sex...this is mostly cause by a confusion between 2 feelings love and admiration.
it maybe a phase but if you feel attracted to more girls ur prbly gay.
maybe the reason u dont like guys is b/c after that expierence u had u close ur mind off to men b/c u think that all of them will turn out to be another one of ur friends cousin
sexuality is fluid
just go with the flow and go after which ever sex u feel attracted too. just be open and consider all possibilities male and female
2007-02-17 10:25:55 · answer #2 · answered by NemotheFish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 24 years old, and have never looked at a guy and thought he was cute. Im not lesb or gay. I am happily married to a guy whom I love. I also was a tom boy, and cant stand to wear a skirt, dress, makeup or put my hair up. Try not to be turned off by one bad experiance. Some people turn gay because of that. Look at your feelings to see what you really think about the people around you. You could just be like me. I definalty do not like girls, but dont care about boys either. its called asexual. Sex and kids can be a take it or leave it kinda thing. I have a daughter whom I love by the way, but the choice to have kids was not terribly important. I love kids so it was not a problem, but was not essential for my future happiness.
2007-02-16 10:41:37 · answer #3 · answered by anamaradancer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're really to young to find the answer to this question. It is completely normal to not have a crush on anyone of the opposite sex. It is completely normal to not have had a boyfriend. In trying to find an answer to this, consider what you're really attracted to: not only physically, but emotionally and spiritually as well. This question is one that will need lots of time and experience to answer, maybe not until after you graduate from college! Don't try to find out answer these questions about yourself too quickly.
2007-02-16 10:39:37 · answer #4 · answered by sinfonian0294 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you may be a lesbian... You sound a lot like me at your age. It's really not a horrible thing either. I wouldn't come out in high school about it though, kids can be very cruel. Just act like you like guys, at least until you graduate, it's so hard going through high school being "titled" as a lesbian (trust me I was there 3 years ago) We should talk more about this over email though, if your interested, and if you have any other questions.
You can email me at
Kimmy_Kim86@yahoo.com
OR
Dixiexccoach05@aol.com Just let me know it's you!
Good luck babe~
2007-02-16 11:36:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, since you are a tomboy you see guys as only friends. and that doesn't mean you are a les. if you don't think you are, you probably are right. i have a friend who is also a tomboy, she is straight 100% but she doesn't like going out with guys and stuff. so you can figure this out as you go along.
2007-02-16 11:51:46 · answer #6 · answered by A Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one could answer that question for you. Only you could know what is your decision going to be. You have to ask your self what I like or what I want. We can't tell you that you are les or straight. That is up to you. You and no one else knows the answer. Look deep inside of you and ask your self this question. I am les or straight?
2007-02-16 10:42:38 · answer #7 · answered by Joeann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've had at least 1 crush on a woman. You're a tomboy. You like pickup trucks. YEP! You're a dyke! Welcome to the club! Stand up. Be proud. Enjoy life. And don't let anyone stand in between you and your desires except your own moral compass.
2007-02-16 17:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg same thing with me. im not a tomboy, but i don't like frilly junk either. i've had crushes towards guys but i've never had a bf, and i find myself crushing on girls a little
2007-02-16 10:56:18 · answer #9 · answered by nαrcíssα [misses being a TC] 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's called sexual harassment and being traumatized by it. also, just because you're more tomboyish and not into the "frilly junk" doesn't mean you're lesbian. i hated girly stuff in high school but i still ended up with a boyfriend in college. :P
2007-02-16 10:42:05 · answer #10 · answered by Matichel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like u answer the question yourself if it sounds like a duck walk like a duck quack like a duck then it is a duck if you are having these feelings you need to see someone u can talk to and weigh-out Ur options but u r what u r and don't be ashamed live Ur life to the fullest
2007-02-16 10:44:33 · answer #11 · answered by Firstquarter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋