Well I have this friend and I love her alot but it seems that she has changed way to much. She is judging me and the rest of my friends and she's not someone we can rely on anymore. She thinks we have changed and she's mad because were rude to her but it's the complete opposite. She calls her friends bitches and ugly. But then again she is really nice. But lately I can't depend on her and we all think she is a horrible friend. What do you think?? Is she a friend to rely on or one that stays for a while then moves on?? Help me PLEASE!!!!!
2007-02-16 10:23:13 · 10 answers · asked by LiveLifeTheWayYouWish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would talk to her in private to see if there is something going on with her to see if that is why her behavior changed. If she refuses to meet with you to talk, then I would let her know at least that her behavior is going cause her to lose you. Also maybe your friendship could be growing apart. But I would try to talk to her first.
2007-02-16 10:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by krw65 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Calling names doesn't make for good friends. In one sentence you say you love her and the next she is a horrible friend. You are also judging her, just like you said she was doing. Take a step back and think about it. You usually get treated the way you treat others.
2007-02-16 18:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It seems like she has a split personality. One minute she's an angel but within seconds she grows horns. I wouldn't tell her anything you wouldn't want someone else to know, because if she's like how you're describing her, she could instantly use that against you. I wouldn't take my chances trusting someone like that because she could just as easily turn her back on you and make life a living hell! <3
2007-02-16 18:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn the tables on her treat her the same way and see if she likes it. Maybe she will see how big of a B she is.
2007-02-16 18:29:09 · answer #4 · answered by bdgizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u really need to have a one on one talk with her asap...& explian the way that shes making u guys feel...
2007-02-16 18:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by Confussed Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hs ehas some family drama going on and she taking it out on her friends
2007-02-16 18:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your friend is going through something personal at home...look into the situation before you dump her....
2007-02-16 18:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by *<dEzI>* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl u need to leave her
2007-02-16 18:28:52 · answer #8 · answered by mandy iz a cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that your friendship has run its course.
2007-02-16 18:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by SARAH W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to here
2007-02-16 18:35:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋