Well, i've been "talking" to this guy since Oct. of last yr & he's overseas rite now. We got to the point where after i graduated we would even get married & i believed & still believe up to this pt. that'll i'll be w/him the rest of my life. No matter how crazy that might sound at my age(fixin to turn 17) & well last month we got in2 this argument that he didn't want to talk to me anymore 4 1 reason or another & well about a couple of days later called me & said sorry 4 the way he acted. He said we just need to give this some time & well we did. Recently he called me out of no where 2 say hi.We recently started talking again, but as just friends for now. Earlier he texted me saying he was so tired of being over there & was feeling really lonely. I felt so bad, because i really want 2 B w/him, but he still has doubts b/c of my age and his(22)This is the thing that troubles his mind the most, I want 2 give him good feedback 2 not think about it anymore.My ques. is what can i tell him?
2007-02-16 10:17:22 · 3 answers · asked by BeBa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
People mature at different ages, and girls mature faster than boys. I think a girl is at least 2 or 3 years more mature than a boy. (stats.) You are in a position to go out with other guys and have a normal life. (which you should!) He has had experiences that you will never know, him being overseas. This will give you time to really find out how you feel about each other. Distance will either put you closer together, or draw you apart further. If you really care for each other you will be together, for right now, please keep writing him and keep his morals as up as you can. He is in harms way, and doing a lot of dangerous things over there. I believe I married my best friend and it has lasted 30 years. I am older than him, (5 yrs) so he has caught up with me on maturity,....if you want to give him good feedback try telling him that he is your best friend and he can tell you anything. Please keep all your letters cause someday you will cherish them as memories. I have letters that a guy wrote me from Vietnam professing his love for me, and I love to read them sometimes. These guys love pictures of people they know and you could send him some of whatever he likes, a car, drag racing, motorcycles, etc. Keep his friendship and live your life, these truly are your best years. Don't worry so much, things will work out!! Good Luck!
2007-02-16 10:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by Linda W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean I didn't really get what u asking for.. u said hes overseas. Okay my Q is did u met this guy on person or not... being 17 is OK.. if wants to be Ur F yes do it.. but if he felling lonely .. u don't know what hes doing there by him self.. and where is he anyways... and why u have to worry about him.. my Q is for u love him or not.. do u see Ur self with him the next 10 or 20 years from now..??!!! think about ... is not about giving feed back.. its about what u want email me if u want tot all about it.. bye
2007-02-16 10:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by I_belong_to_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats illegal for you all to be dating...he can be arrested for relationship with a minor..you have to be over 18!!
anyways you are too young to be dealing with that..i say wait a couple years, finish school, get a decent job then think about marriage..17 is wayy to young to get married, enjoy the years that you have has a teen
2007-02-16 10:24:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋