Any tips on getting a girlfriend? I never had a girlfriend before nor do I have good female friends. I hear that just because a person has a female friend, that doesn't necessarily means she will become his girlfriend. And that is true. I have heard that 1st appearance matters a lot so will it be better for me if I stop biting my nails and talking to girls? I know for a fact that my voice is a really bad turnoff. My friend say I need to impress a girl with my other qualities. What is the other qualities that I need to find to get a girlfriend? I am 19 years old already. and please do not answer something about money, since if i give a lot of gifts and spend lots of money on her, it would be wasting since it would be too nice and that would be a turnoff. and I wouldn't have a girlfriend. I would just have only a friend. I want to find true love.
No, I will not try a dating site. For all that answer "you're gay", I am not gay.
2007-02-16 10:11:52 · 18 answers · asked by Raymond 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I believe true love is a feeling that takes time to cultivate... And, yes you will connect with someone who touches your heart... Keep in mind, she maybe right under your nose.
2007-02-16 10:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I never had a boyfriend until I went to college and I am not a loser! I was just really focused on school and did really well. Having a good personality and looking good is important. Every girl is different. My question is what kind of girl are you looking for? Go out and do things to find that special someone. Go to dances, parties, and movies. Just go out and meet people. Once you find yourself interested in someone then find the courage to ask that person out! Take chances and if you are shy then work on not being shy! You have to have self confidence and be a gentleman. Looks do matter depending on the girl, but personality is number one. Make her laugh! If you are skinny..hit the gym. If you don't know how to dress..ask for help! Do what you can to improve yourself if that is what you need to do and once you get that confidence boost you can ask almost any girl out. Don't worry about rejection...keep trying and someone will say yes! Good luck and you are not alone!
2007-02-16 18:26:50 · answer #2 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think there is such a thing as true love. I mean there really isn't just ONE person for someone. don't wait around for that one special person, because you'll never find her. usually when you stop trying so hard is when you'll find someone. maybe have a friend set you up on a blind date. that's how I found my husband. or what's wrong with internet dating services? there are MILLIONS of people using them! there's gotta be some awesome people on it! not everyone who does that is a freak. actually probably very few are weirdos. for real! i mean, for the most part they are just like you and can't seem to find anybody they are interested in.
2007-02-16 18:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by daizybethy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.consider all the qualities you want in a girl.
2. think about where girls that have those qualities are and what they do.
3. find out what these people are interested in
4. if it is interesting then do it yourself..and become interesting
5. meet them and talk about your mutual interest
6. after establishing a FREINDSHIP begin to flirt
7. if it works it works,great. if not, what the hell, your a little more interesting than you were when you started
charming and interesting beats sophisticated any day of the week
2007-02-16 18:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by wAHAw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure you have great qualities you can work. Although appearances are a big factor, its not what gets the other person sticking around the pretty faced/handsome guy. its their personality, so just work your best quality and im sure girls will be attracted to your quality. but like many already said, dont try so hard, because the disappointment is just so hard.
2007-02-16 18:50:02 · answer #5 · answered by kc321 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never find true love, trying so hard. Approach girls with confidence and they will flock. Don't try and change b/c then the girl is falling for a fake you. Don't buy them alot of gifts and such, they will use you. You are very young and have the rest of your life to come across true love. Just be yourself...true love is loving the other person for who they really are, strengths and weaknesses both.
2007-02-16 18:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sometimes you just got to let it come to you...
but that could take a while, not just for you, for anyone. Just be yourself. Find someone you think you could see yourself dating and slowly move in. (this seems like your style)
Just talk to her here and there and LISTEN!
it's amazing how they react if you just re-cal little tid bits of info about them. And overall, be a gentleman. Be nice. if it doesn't work then, your day will come.
but keep in mind, sometimes nice guys finish last so don't get pushed around
2007-02-16 18:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by MikeIAm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem like a real nice guy I wish I was single.try going to social gatherings or maybe from work.Try to hang out with girls one to one and see what happens from there.
2007-02-16 18:16:37 · answer #8 · answered by Lexy320 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a search and we have to put up with many disappoints...
Happiness takes work
Misery is easy to find
2007-02-16 18:15:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and meet people. there is probably someone right for you. it just takes time and patience. don't rush into things you don't want to make a mistake that you'll forever regret. just meet new people.
2007-02-16 18:17:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋