Any tips on getting a girlfriend? I never had a girlfriend before nor do I have good female friends. I hear that just because a person has a female friend, that doesn't necessarily means she will become his girlfriend. And that is true. I have heard that 1st appearance matters a lot so will it be better for me if I stop biting my nails and talking to girls? I know for a fact that my voice is a really bad turnoff. My friend say I need to impress a girl with my other qualities. What is the other qualities that I need to find to get a girlfriend? I am 19 years old already. and please do not answer something about money, since if i give a lot of gifts and spend lots of money on her, it would be wasting since it would be too nice and that would be a turnoff. and I wouldn't have a girlfriend. I would just have only a friend. I want to find true love.
No, I will not try a dating site. For all that answer "you're gay", I am not gay.
2007-02-16 10:11:28 · 6 answers · asked by Raymond 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, you will find true love.
Girls these days do not wait for the guy to ask them out-so this may make your task a little more difficult but you can still accomplish what you need to accomplish: it will just take a little more time.
Scope out all the girls that you think you like. One at a time approach one of them and ask if she would join you for lunch, dinner, or coffee?
All you need to do is be yourself so that you can get someone who appreciates you for you. You will eventually be yourself once you get comfortable and it will appear that you have changed so be yourself from the beginning.
Many today do not want to do the foot work for relationships. It takes time and it is worth it right?
2007-02-16 10:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe
but probably not with your attitude
Finding true love is way too much to tackle at 19.
Try finding a girl you like to talk to who likes to talk to you.
Then see if the same thing is true for kissing.
You can't know if someone is your everything until you get to know everything about them. That takes time. Then they change and you change and what both of you want out of life changes.
So chill.
Concentrate on having fun. Do what you like to do. If you meet a girl doing what you like to do, that means you have something in common. Something to talk about. The Bonus: If you are having fun then you come off as someone fun loving. I.E. not a whiner who wants to find true love noooooowww.
Be a man worth having. Honest, Interesting, Interested, Educated, Thoughtful, Upstanding, Employed, Motivated, Fun Loving. The girls will find you.
2007-02-16 19:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jewel C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey,
look i really don't know what 2 say cuz I'm only like 16,
but what u should do is just relax and b ur self.
if u c a girl u like just dont think about what ur going 2 say 2 her just focus on what she says 2 u and remember so that the next time u see her u can make a comment on what she said b4, then u will probably get 2 be friends w/her then later on in life u guyz will get closer 2 where u can ask her out,
i wish u good luck.
2007-02-16 18:37:20 · answer #3 · answered by minired_7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it this is just a odd phase in your life, we all deserve to be love and true love will come in its own time, but first of all you got to change this attiude how you think of yourself, biting nails and weird voice! Start visioning who you want to be! Start by reading books on how to build on your qualities and get confident! Then your princess will come along.
2007-02-16 18:18:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, just be yourself. If you want to find a soul mate, don't try to impress with material goods. I know this from personal experience. It'll get you laid. Trust me.
2007-02-16 18:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not w/ a face like tht
2007-02-16 18:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by vulu 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋