I had a one year relationship with him but we broke up due to his bad temper and a year later we met and he told me he had a girlfriend. He however continued calling me and meeting me but he wants more than a kiss. I dont wanna have a serious relationship with him but i enjoy being with him. Am wondering, why does he want to cheat on his new girlfriend with me?
He gives me lots of gifts and says he loves me.
Heeelp........... what does this man want. Who does he love?
2007-02-16 10:02:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he is your ex, which means he should be a thing of the past, move on, dont accept any more gifts, phone calls ect, if he is willing to disrespect his relationship with his new girlfriend then he wont have any respect for you either if you continue to let him in your life and persuade you with words, ect, he is playing both of you....
2007-02-23 03:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up the first time because of his Bad Temper.
If it was that bad to break up over ,it seems he may be abusive, and apparently dosen't care about others feelings..Do you really think that this kind of person wouldn't cheat on you like he is cheating on his current girlfriend?? I would'n't want him around even as a friend....Have more confidence in yourself that you deserve better.This is a prelude to a toxic relationship!Get out!
P.S Been there -Done That...Gifts dont mean anything except that Gifts and Words are all he has to offer!
2007-02-23 09:30:07 · answer #2 · answered by iwild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you lost your good sense? You broke up with him d/t his bad temper. He says he has a gf but wants to have a thing with you too? You need to decide what you want from the relationship you don't want anything serious? what is serious to you? this guy sounds like a insecure boy who wants all the "candy" he can get his hands on. and you are the familiar flavor. Do want to see if you can "win" him back? Or do you want to be free to find someone that may be will to let you be their only?
2007-02-16 18:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by Sandra D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tina Turner said "what's love got to do with it." Dude wants his cake and to eat it too so you gotta decide if you want to be his icing on his cake. You know he has a gf but you still see him so that in and of itself says something. Maybe you're willing to have an 'Open Relationship' that is attractive to some women and men so think about it cause you already know he has a girlfriend so what you bring to the table is some Wild Oats to be sown....
2007-02-24 14:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by rashawn4u2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's crazy... I assume that there are things about you that he loves and wants to remain in his life so he basically wants the best of both worlds, or he misses you and thinks that there might be a possibility for a second chance. But this will only prevent you from moving on, and also if his temper was cause for concern for you the first time you might want to rethink letting him back into your life.
2007-02-16 18:10:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the only person your ex loves is himself, he wants his cake and wants to eat it too. Your best bet would be to steer clear of this guy. You should also think about the fact that there is another girl in the picture, does she know about you, would you really want to devote time to someone who's unfaithfull?! The whole temper issue should also be a RED flag.
2007-02-24 17:04:40 · answer #6 · answered by Lil Red Rabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants the best of both worlds, he probably also wants you to be there if anything goes wrong with his gf. He wouldnt be with his girlfriend if he loved you still. Think of the bad reasons why you split up like his bad temper and move on with your life, if he really loved you then he would realise he has lost you and want you back
2007-02-16 18:06:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Probilly sorry to of have broke with you "Hows is his Temper Now?" I've broke several relationships with girls and half we talk but no big hugs etc
2007-02-16 18:15:03 · answer #8 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason he wants to cheat on his girlfriend with you is because he was doing the same thing when he was with you. Hint it up, baby.
2007-02-16 18:21:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are letting yourself get disrespected by doing this. What goes around comes around. Would you want your boyfriend doing this with his ex.... If you answer no then you know something is wrong. Don't put yourself in that situation. It may be hard but if he loved you he would be with you.
2007-02-24 14:09:07 · answer #10 · answered by sweetiepiefg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋