im 18 years old and will be 19 feb 20th me and my husband have beent trying to conceive a child but for two months we have had intercourse almost eveyday could it be that im not able to have children or maybe its not enough time or what.
2007-02-16 09:53:32 · 12 answers · asked by tasmania962 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
A little impatient, aren't we?
Make sure that you both are as healthy as possible. Don't take any drugs or alcohol, and eat natural foods as much as possible (avoid processed foods).
That said, relax and take a long view. Mother Nature may bless you with a pregnancy immediately or any time up to 18 months from now in a normal situation.
2007-02-16 09:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to stop having intercoarse everyday. There is only one day a month that you can get pregnant. You need to look up basel body temperature, it has been a few years since I used this method so I don't remember the website. There are sites that you can print the temperature chart. You will need to buy a basel body temperature thermometor. You only want to have sex every other day after your period for about ten days ( the basel website will tell you more accurately then me) After a few months you will notice a pattern of when you are ovulating and you will be able to narrow it down to the day. If you have sex all the time then you will use up all your husbands sperm. If you feel that you have the chart mastered and are still not pregnant then I would see a doctor. Usually they want you to chart it for 6 months before they see you. Take the charts with you. The doctor can tell by looking at your charts as to whether or not you are ovulating. Things that can also decrease your husbands sperm are heat such as wearing briefs as opposed to boxers, sitting in a hot tub, and smoking. Good Luck!
2007-02-16 18:51:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two months is not a long time to be trying to conceive. I am sure it seems like forever when you want a baby. The average couple with no fertility problems usually takes 12 months to become pregnant. Some women take longer and some shorter.
To assist you in knowing the best time to conceive, you should try ovulation predictor kits. You can buy them at any pharmacy, Walmart, or Target. The kits work like pregnancy test (you pee on a stick) and they will tell you when you are ovulating. When the test shows positive, you will ovulate in the next 24-48hours.
You should also track your cycles to know how long they are, this will also help you predict ovulation. There are also websites that can help you calculate when you are ovulating. Babycenter.com is a good one.
If your cycles are irregular (varying time lengths each month), you should contact your doctor. There is medication they can give you to help regulate your cycle so you can get pregnant.
2007-02-16 18:04:14 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different. Im sure there is nothing wrong with you. You might want to try buying an ovualtion predictor kit . This will tell you 24-48 hours before you ovualte. The most fertile time to conceive is 24-48 hour before and 24 hours after ovulation. Good Luck!
2007-02-16 18:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs Adams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is wrong. you are having intercourse, but you are doing it every day. You need to time it at the right time of the month and make sure you do it like twice every week. That way ur man will save up enough sperm so that there is a chance one might get there.
2007-02-16 19:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I had a really hard time getting pregnant with our son, we tried for over a year. Every month I took a test. When you try to hard your body is to tense. The stress makes it harder. Relax dont think about it and it happens. We also went to our doctor I got a pap test and he did a sperm count. We then did an ovulation kit and it worked the first time. Just breath,,,
2007-02-16 20:39:22 · answer #6 · answered by karah_logan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've herd from friends thats you need to take some vitamin tablets 3 months b4 you start. my wife and i started after "the wrong time of the month" aand it worked. try that. maybe you r putting too much pressure on urself, consult ur doctor to see if either of u have problems. it will happen eventually, like everything else when u least expect it. just don't think of it and relax and enjoy the love you are sharing & it will all come together in the end. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-16 18:01:58 · answer #7 · answered by hsvxclr8r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely give it more time..A couple with no fertility problems has only a 25% chance each month of achieving pregnancy...could take a few months or it could take a year or more...be patient it will happen..Good Luck~~~~
2007-02-16 18:06:05 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa ♥'s Tim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His sperm will be the strongest if you only have intercourse every 2 or 3 days.
2007-02-16 18:17:16 · answer #9 · answered by mandirae23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try taking an ovulation test. Most women are most fertile two weeks after their period. I hope this helps. Good Luck!
2007-02-16 18:15:28 · answer #10 · answered by Brittany Davis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋