please dont report me, but my friends keep askin me if i let my bf eat me out. is that like oral sex?? im 14
2007-02-16 09:46:04 · 21 answers · asked by koi 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
ur gunnna think it's gross cus it is
it's when a guy gos down there in ur vagina and like u know sucks on it and stuff
preettyy nasssty
just say no to them
2007-02-16 09:52:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure your basic question has been answered to your satisfaction. "Eating Out" is "Oral Sex", although boys generally use "Eat Me".
You've also got a bunch of lectures here. Don't do it, you're too young - and you really are. Doesn't mean a lot of 14 and younger don't do it as often as they can - they were too young, too.
The most important thing for both a boy and a girl is to know they are ready before they have any form of sexual activity. Just knowing what it is doesn't mean you're "old enough" or "ready".
Truthfully, it was not unusual for 14 year old girls to get married in the early part of the 20th century. And it was quite common in the late 19th century. Back then, 14 year old girls weren't even as physically developed as they are today. They were much older mentally, they had been "in training" almost as soon as they could talk to assit mom in running the household. At that time girls had one function - run the household.
Today, girls are physically mature much earlier, but are not receiving the "wife" training. They plan to be in school at least a full 12 years and most go on to college. The need to get married is not there.
But the desire to have sex is very strong - for guys and girls. It's a very big deal. It feels good. Damn good. It also has some dangers. Unplanned pregnancy. Very nasty and incurable diseases like HIV / AIDS and Herpes. Other diseases that are curable, but still nasty. Even cervical cancer. Those are just the physical issues. Emotional issues are also a problem.
If the sex has more meaning to you than your partner, it can actually cause of lifetime of emotional pain.
Ok, all of this and I come back to: Wait on any sexual activity until you are ready. To answer this question, you have to be completely honest with yourself. You have to push aside the emotions. Are you ready to have a guy touch your genitals? Lick them? Have intercourse? You will probably answer these questions yes at different ages.
And when you do say yes, protect yourself. Touching with the fingers isn't likely to spread a disease unless somebody's fingers are bloody stumps, but everything else should use protection. You should use a vaginal dam when you get eaten. Guys should wear condums during oral sex. And definitely use a condom and a spermicide (at a minimum) when you have intercourse.
2007-02-16 14:33:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all let me answer your question....yes it is oral sex, when someone "eats you out" and then let me clear up exactly what oral sex is....it seems like everyone on here is a little confused as to what oral sex is with a woman.....it is not only licking and sucking on a woman's vagina but also the outer lips, the inner lips, and most importantly the clitoris......you can lick, suck or otherwise use your tongue to bring the girl to orgasm......and NO it is not gross or disgusting.....if it is to you than you have no idea what you are missing and the person doing it is obviously doing it WRONG.........you are going to find that 90% of guys love to do it and it will become a very important part of you sexual life later in life.
2007-02-16 11:51:12 · answer #3 · answered by blah blah blah 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, this is oral sex and a fourteen year old should NOT be thinking about doing this. Oral sex is a very personal thing to do - it's as intimate as intercourse. And, when things get going, you are putting yourself in a very compromising position - including continuing past oral sex into intercourse which could result in a tragic and unwanted pregnancy. I have a very strong feeling you don't understand your body, a boy's body and the facts about sex and pregnancy.
You need to go to Planned Parenthood and talk to a counselor. The last thing you need is a baby and, if you continue listening to your ignorant "friends" you'll have one very soon.
Sex at the right time of your life is a wonderful and special thing. Sex, when it's the wrong time and for all the wrong reasons, becomes nothing special - like eating and going to the bathroom. And that is very sad. Focus on becoming the wonderful woman you have the potential to be and leave sex alone for a few years.
Please, please, please, stop and think! OK?
2007-02-16 09:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by Sciencemom 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Yes, it is oral sex. It's when another person puts their mouth on your vagina. I would suggest that if you're unsure of what it is, don't do it. And at the age of fourteen, you shouldn't be thinking of doing more w/ a boy than holding hands and pecking on the cheek. :-]
2007-02-16 11:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is the same as oral sex. Wait. There's plenty of time for that.
2007-02-16 09:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by momof3 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is oral sex!
2007-02-16 14:16:58 · answer #7 · answered by jillmarie2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. that is oral sex. you are way too young to be doing that anyway find a sport read a book or something. your next question would be am I pregnant...You have way too much time for all that.
2007-02-16 10:54:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
hi not to sound nasty but you are too young to be doing any sexual activity because if your boyfriend is over 16+ he can go to prision and get done for rape on a under age girl. Next time please dont not trying to scare you or anything you can catch some preety nasty STI's wise up kid xx
2007-02-16 11:36:13 · answer #9 · answered by sandy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ummm trying to say the least...its when a guy goes "down there" and licks and sucks untill you reach orgasm.....dont do it till your ready...
*I hope I helped*
2007-02-16 11:48:42 · answer #10 · answered by tinkerbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋