i am always getting hit on. and everyone (friends, other students) say the only reason guys want me is for my looks. thats the only thing. i hav a good personality but guys nevr care bout that. i am nevr without a boyfriend. its getting hard to figure out what to do. the first thing a guy sees is my looks and physical appearence and all he wants is the physical. its hard when some of the girls r supposed to be my friendsand they say things like im stupid and looks r the only reason guys want me.i mean some of my GOOD friends know im cool and hav a great personality but its hard to deal and find out what to say when people say things like that. what would u do?
2007-02-16 09:44:06 · 8 answers · asked by beautyq 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
maybe because you are NEVER WITHOUT A BOYFRIEND , your friends and the guys are perceiving you the wrong way... keep your reputation on the down-low, and when the guy thats right for you , who thinks your not only pretty, but also very intellectual, comes along, you wont have alot of explaining to do.
try being friends with more guys than having alot of boyfriends. this way, you are free to date who you want and have an opportunity to know when its right...i hope this helped! good luck girlfriend...!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-16 09:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by kim t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. If a guy just likes you for how you look, he isn't worth your time, no matter how hot he is. And if your so called friends are telling you mean things like that, maybe it's time to get some new friends. They're just jealous of your mad skills. Just remember to be yourself and not to waste your time on the people who don't appreciate who you are! Good luck!
2007-02-16 09:52:36 · answer #2 · answered by Jinx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those girls are jealous of you and are trying to make you feel bad about yourself. Demand respect from men and make sure they don't get the physical until you get the respect.
2007-02-16 09:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't give into guys physically, don't dress "easy" and look as if all you're looking for is sex, and don't "never be w/o a boyfriend" b/c if you are that does send a message to people.
2007-02-16 10:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by Dinosaur 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i have like the same problem all of my friends who told me that nobody cares about my personality or anything i just asked them if they liked me for my personality and the ones who said yes i just told them that if they like me for my personality then they dont need to be all up in my face about what guys think about me and that i can handle myself and some of my friends said they are my friend cuz guys like me and they thought they could get a guy from being my friend and now we arent friends, as for the guys you just have to ask them casually what they like about you and then go from there. guys should like you for who you are not for what you look like. one of my boyfriends i asked if he would still be with me if i was fat and he said yea then i asked if i was ugly and he said probably then i asked if he would still like me if i didnt have boobs and he no way but then he said that it doesnt even matter cuz im skinny hott and have boobs. we broke up after he said that.
2007-02-16 09:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by chellie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..maybe your dressing too revealing. or a better idea is the first person's, that maybe its cuz you never not have a boyfriend.
2007-02-16 10:06:05 · answer #6 · answered by jessica :] 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dressing trashy, you don't get no respect.
2007-02-16 10:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And we're supposed to feel sorry for you because....?
2007-02-16 09:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by Morey000 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋