Theres this new guy at my school & my friend & I both like him.I think my friend like him more but the thing is he's feeling me & not her what should i do?
2007-02-16 09:43:19 · 12 answers · asked by Confussed Sweetie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Let him chose and if he asks you out go out with him for the right reasons not because he is cute and your friend won't be as mad.
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2007-02-16 09:47:51 · answer #1 · answered by Arc_Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know this usually happens a lot and i watch when it does sometimes friends break up and never speak over that one guy then he chooses a girl the girl loves him and it turns out the guy is a jerk now I'm not saying this guy is but if you both like him and he likes you that's obviously a problem you could either
1. talk to your friends about it and try to explain that the likes you and make sure that if you and the guy get together she's okay with it because that is what usually goes wrong and try not to brag about it some people do that and the friendship cracks
2. not even take a look at him
3. go out with him and let your friend come with you if its okay with both of you she might get jealous or she might like it
2007-02-16 09:57:50 · answer #2 · answered by elpruprulesnoone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you note of this in a lot of circumstances takes position a lot and that i watch even as it does specially circumstances acquaintances harm up and not in any respect in any respect talk over that one guy then he chooses a lady the girl loves him and it form of feels the guy is a jerk now i'm no longer saying this guy is yet once you both like him and he likes you it really is of route a situation you're in a position to both a million. talk on your persons about it and attempt to describe that the likes you and make sure that in case you and the guy celebration she's pleased with it pondering the glaring incontrovertible reality that's what in a lot of circumstances is going incorrect and attempt to no longer brag about it some people attempt this and the friendship cracks 2. no longer even take a check out him 3. move out with him and allow your buddy comprise you if its pleased with both one among you she might want to get jealous or she might want to like it
2016-11-03 21:14:03 · answer #3 · answered by canevazzi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter is in the exact same situation right now. her friend really likes this guy, and so does she, but the guy likes her. All I can say by watching all of this is that it will work itself out. Just go with the flow. I would only advise you to remember that boys will come and go, but your friends are typically longer term.
2007-02-16 09:48:31 · answer #4 · answered by sirdoctorfine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously if he likes you and not your friend he'll make it known. If you feel that he will in some way ruin your friendship with her and you value her friendship over a guy that might possibly not work out... just forget about him.
2007-02-16 09:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by Alisa R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude im in the same situation... if you dont like the guy that much its not worth hurting a good friends feelings for. HOS OVER BROS!!
2007-02-16 09:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by sweetiecem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you like him back then you and him should have a talk with her and he should just try and explain to her that he likes you but him and her can still be friends.
2007-02-16 09:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by Krystiana K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. But only if you're sure he likes you like if he's asked you out or he's told you.
Oh by the way this will only work if you are really good friends.
2007-02-16 09:48:28 · answer #8 · answered by Questionis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,OH! OH! here we go! It depends on your character. What's more important ,your friend or the new meat you've been waiting for ???
2007-02-16 09:55:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT U SHOULD DO IS TELL HER ABOUT U AND HER AND THAT WHAT WOULD SHE DO IF THE GUY DOESN'T LIKE HER BUT LIKES U AND TALK ABOUT IT SO THAT U GIRLS DON'T END UP FIGHTING AND BEING WORST ENIMIES.
2007-02-16 10:00:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋