there is this guy who works in the same building as i do but in a different department. I know for sure that he likes me & alot of other ppl have noticed as well. i go to work 2morow and i'll probably see him there. i don't kno wat 2 say 2 him any more. i don't wanna go 2 the next step cuz i'm 15 and he's turning 20 next month. so we r over the age limit thingy & i dunno if i wanna wait till i'm 16 when i cna go out with him cuz he might not like me anymore by then. i dunno if i should give him a valentine or not cuz it might look silly cuz he might not like me (&it's over) that may just be his personality. if i do give him anything i plan on giving him my email so we can get to know each oher a bit more.
does anybody have any ideas what i shoud do? i really dunno and i do somewhat like him. i mean he's cute and all and very sweet and great personality. & i'm almost positive he likes me cuz he practly stocks me. there alot more to the stocking part.
can any 1 give me any idea plz
2007-02-16 09:17:25 · 7 answers · asked by wonderbunny22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i know valentine's is over but he wsn't there on valentine when i went to the store for milk and now i dunno if i really wanna go further. i hope i'm making sence.
2007-02-16 09:18:52 · update #1
i dont think he wants *** i dont think he is that kind of guy. and i would know when to pull out of a situation like that. but thanks for teh concerine.
2007-02-16 09:21:50 · update #2
he's not really stocking. if i had more time i would tell u more about him. it's not like he chases me or anything. just when ever i'm in the same building he is, he'll keep one eye on me. i think if he was any thret my grandmother or parents would say something but they dont and they know waht he does cuz they r normally with me someone is when i go to the store and they see what he does. they normally tell me. like my co-workers even tell me what he does and that they think he likes me. so i don't think it THAT BIG of a deal. really.
but thanks for the concern.
2007-02-16 10:58:26 · update #3
That staulking stuff sounds spooky and *not* a good thing. He's acting like that for a reason: he knows, just as you do in your heart, that you're too young for him.
Do NOT "go to the next step" with a guy you only "somewhat like." You could become friends -- but Absolutely Nothing More -- over the next year. (Giving a valentine wasn't a great idea: too much too soon. Even giving him your email too soon may make you look silly.) However, you can and maybe should be courteous with him.
But don't worry whether he'll still like you when you're 16. Just keep doing the things that make you feel good about yourself.
2007-02-16 09:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by will_o_the_west 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would wait until you are 16 and LEGAL. If you really like him do you want to risk him getting in trouble and losing his job? If he still likes you when you are 16, revisit the idea. If he doesn't, it obviously was a passing infatuation and you are better off.
2007-02-16 09:23:09 · answer #2 · answered by indigo422002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL I THINK UR A LITTLE TO YOUNG 4 HIM. HE COULD GET IN TROUBLE MESSING WITH U BUT IF U LIKE HIM AS WELL U HAVE TO TRY THINGS OUT UR SELF. JUST B CARE FULL. AND UR NEXT MOVE SHOULD B NOTHING LET HIM MAKE IT. IF HE'S LIKES U HELL MAKE IT. BUT IF HE CAN'T WAIT AND UNDERSTAND THE AGE THING THEN HE WASN'T THE RIGHT ONE. GOOD LUCK
2007-02-16 09:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by GROUCH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For now, just stay away. The age thing is a big problem.
2007-02-16 09:21:46 · answer #4 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be truthful and have a honest heart to heart talk.
2007-02-16 09:25:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go and ask him directly if he likes you .
2007-02-16 09:28:19 · answer #6 · answered by youthebest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nahh is is too old for u.. and probably he wants *** lol
2007-02-16 09:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋