My best friend is going out with this one boy and he flirts with me all the time and i like him to but you don't want to tell your friend that you like him. What should I do? (She doesn't want me to like him)
2007-02-16 09:16:34 · 7 answers · asked by hotstuff456789 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to your friend. Tell her that her boyfriend flirts with you. And tell her that you do like him too, but you don't know what to do since she is with him. Besides, tell her that you are telling her this because she is your friend, and you really value your friendship. If she doesn't want you to like him then give them a little bit of space. What if he is just messing around with you? What if you are not the only girl he is flirting with? Before doing anything else, you need to figure out if he is being honest or playing around. In the end, it's all up to you of what you want to do. I don't think this guy is worth being with. Imagine, he is with your friend, and flirting with you. What if he were to get with you, and then flirt with other girls? Stick with your friend, and find someone who won't be like this guy.
2007-02-20 05:13:33 · answer #1 · answered by Black Orchid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it for a second. Would you want a guy who is seeing someone and flirting with another? Sounds like a cheater to me. If you were to get with him he would do the same thing to you. And why would you hurt your best friend like that? Friendship means more than some stupid guy that you would eventually break up with anyway. Being a friend means being a true friend who doesn't go after their boyfriends. If you go after him, she won't want to be your friend anymore and neither will anyone else.
2007-02-16 09:34:11 · answer #2 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't like him.
If your BEST FRIEND (to me, that means a lot, but anyway) doesn't want anyone else to be with her boyfriend, then you'd definitely hurt her by doing anything other than leaving him alone. And if he's flirting with other girls while dating her, he's not gonna be that serious about her, you or anyone else. Let it go.
2007-02-16 09:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by kevness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends before boys!!! You two need to work it out, talk.If you can't find a solution then both of you shouldn't go out with him, and if he ask you out, say no!!! Boyfriends are for a little while, but friends are forever!!!
2007-02-16 09:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by soccer_crzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to not like a person cause no 1 can control their feelings, i think that u should be honest with your friend and let her know wats going on. if u dont and u and the guy hook up u are going to lose ur bestfriend.
2007-02-16 09:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by babyblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT flirt back. Does he flirt with other girls too? If so, you should probably tell her about that.
2007-02-16 09:19:54 · answer #6 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't want you to like him? You can like whomever you want. Do you want to lie to her or tell her the truth?
2007-02-16 09:21:01 · answer #7 · answered by Fred L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋