2007-02-16 09:03:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
No, you'll just get cobwebs on your vagina cuz he'll not want to go back to the vagina. It'll never be used. lol
2007-02-22 05:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that is just a myth that has been told over and over again until people think it must be the truth. The other day there was a question asking if anal sex would lead to constipation and some people were suggesting that it would. Anal is not harmful or dangerous. You will not loose control of your bowels or become constipated.
So long as you use lube and relax, and relaxing is only going to happen if anal is something that you want to do, you'll be fine. Don't listen to the tired old horror stories about anal sex. They're something like the stories that they used to tell kids about masturbation causing blindness. Just a bunch of old wives tales that do plenty of harm and seem designed to keep people from experimenting and enjoying one another.
2007-02-16 23:25:47 · answer #2 · answered by Barb S 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
You will if you are not empty before you start. Once you start to enjoy it, along with the rhythm of his motion, it does cause the bowels to relax, and then it becomes messy. Just make sure when you do it, you have already had a bowel movement. The hardest part to get in is the head. He should pulse it in slowly to avoid hurting you, and if it does hurt, then take it out and start over again. It should be easiser then. It can really feel good if he takes his time and is patient. Also use A LOT of lubricant, vaseline is good.
2007-02-22 20:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by sustasue 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, not right away! As long as you use an enema before you two do the deed you should be ok.For a few days afterwards you may notice that you've lost some muscle control and elasicity to the area, but it'll come back. The most important thing is to just relax and enjoy the whole expierence. Good luck!
2007-02-20 21:35:59 · answer #4 · answered by sandramunroe11550 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, if you prepare.
Only do so if you really want to, though
Use a Fleets' enema--you can get it at the pharmacy--about 30 minutes before you plan to have sex. After the enema, take a shower and pamper yourself.
When you're ready for him to enter you, use lots of lubricant and NEVER use vaseline-it can cause tears in the skin that harbor infection.
Good luck.
2007-02-23 14:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by Croa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you won't, I heard that only happens after years and years of anal sex, a few times won't make you incontinent. Just make sure your hubby is gentle, you don't want to damage anything internally. Have Fun!!
2007-02-23 10:32:05 · answer #6 · answered by Carla S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
And perhaps it also bears saying that once in the rear, _never_ ever try immediately into the vagina--it'll only transfer bacteria and that's a NO-NO! It's something y'all must know by now, of course.
Bowel is spelled with only one "l"
2007-02-22 21:30:29 · answer #7 · answered by MJ D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. The only real risk is tearing your anal walls. But as long as you stay calm, he goes slow and listens to you, and you use plenty of lube you should be fine.
2007-02-16 17:58:17 · answer #8 · answered by Horsetrainer89 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you have an incontinance problem you might want to steer clear! And I did see a porn once and the girl did not lose control...but there was stuff coming out, it wasn't white!!!
2007-02-21 19:43:02 · answer #9 · answered by IzzyBelly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you wont . at first you will feel odd there and it feel like you have to go sometimes but never loose control . after a while you will be begging him to do it . go for it live
2007-02-17 19:36:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋