My 14 yo sons ex girlriend keeps prank calling him and has her friends bug him at school. I have talked to her parents and they keep telling me thats it not her, however we have her number on caller ID. I have changed our phone number and somehow she found out our new #. I have also talked to they school, and they really can't do much. Any ideas on how to get this girl to move along?
2007-02-16 08:50:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
File a complaint with the local phone company and police.
2007-02-16 08:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Rockhead 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
WOW! You already know what subsequent time he does it and the hearth department indicates up tell them to name the police. As soon as the police come take an officer aside and provide an explanation for that you've tried everything, however he wont discontinue so if the officer would "arrest" him. It is all false however he talks his cuffs and locations them for your son and than tells him that calling the fire department the place there is no fire is a crime (which is right) them he will location your son into the back of the vechiel and drive him to the station and location him in a holding phone. Then in about 10 minutes you go to the station and have a talk with the officer and your son. He must never name 911 once more (unless there's a purpose other than for the heck of it).
2016-08-10 16:11:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is a good one, if it were an adult doing this it would legally be considered harassment. So in other words, if you have proof (via caller I.D.) that it was this young girl you must address this with her parents. Threaten police action if it does not stop. I'm sure that if they are at all responsible for their child's actions that a police threat would get them to talk to her. At school well that is a different story, but you may want to talk to the principal and see what he/she has to say about the situation and resolve it from there.
2007-02-16 08:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by Travis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start documenting! Phone calls, things said by people in school, instances or seeing her around. Same thing happened to my nehpew. Then she started showing up at his work, then she started driving by the house, then one night she broke in. The parents were in denial the entire time. Finally, they had to sue her in court and get a restraining order. The parents still deny it was her, even though they had phone records, police records, and personal eye witness accounts. Without that log book that listed the time of the call, the number that came in, and how long it lasted, the police wouldn't have listened either. Hopefully this doesn't happen to you. Good luck.
2007-02-16 08:56:08 · answer #4 · answered by mel m 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends on what kind of girl she is. I would confront the girl's parents first. If the calls procede, I would talk to my son and find out exactly what happened. Then, I would confront the girl (call her or talk to her the next time she calls) and resolve the matter rather "matter of factly." Still calling? Then try giving her some "step-motherly advice" because mothers dont say the things I would if she continued to harass my home.
2007-02-16 08:59:14 · answer #5 · answered by The Truth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, someone at HOME has a big mouth (for your number to be found out). If you get it UNLISTED next time, then they cannot call the operator and find out. It would only be found out by word of mouth. Someone knows your number and is passing it on to them, so tell your kids to NOT give the number to ANYONE till this girl starts stalking some other poor soul. Call the law and have them put a tracer on the phone, and then file stalking charges OR harrassment charges. But, above all, tell the family to NOT give the number out to ANYONE till she moves on to the next fool.
2007-02-16 08:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have a 14 year old son and can't figure this out? Block all numbers she calls from, for starters, then ask your son how she got the new number.
2007-02-16 08:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by theangel1025 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't change your phone number again.
Contact the telephone company to give them permission to put a trace on your line for these harassing calls. After evidence is gathered, meet with her parents again and suggest that you will press charges if it happens again. It's called stalking.
2007-02-16 08:54:49 · answer #8 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you have to go to the police.... failing that leave the country, but im assuming that not an option. she sounds a bit disturbed. when she calls you need to tape her as proof for the police. her parents wont be able to deny it then.first though, you have to make sure your sons telling the truth about why they broke up.
2007-02-16 09:09:11 · answer #9 · answered by kazzy3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
subscribe to call block. You can block her number from calling you. Most companies allow you to block up to 10 numbers. You can include her home, cell, etc.
2007-02-16 08:53:45 · answer #10 · answered by HW 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋