Ive been with my girlfriend for two years now we started dating feb 2, 2005 she was 16 and i was 19 we both got along great the first year in the middle of the second year we start to fight alot mostly my fault. I started to push her away and she started complain that i dont give her any attention and i ignored it. we started to talk about marrige and have kids...that summer we started to fight alote more and i guess i push her way even more. so i guess one of her old guy friends start talking to her and she cheated on me with him 3 times she end that relationship around sept or oct of 06 and didnt tell me about it...well on november we got on a huge fight things were said i broke up with but i love her so much still and she didnt want to leave me so after we both talk i realize i dont want to leave her... the next day we got in another fight that..so we didnt talk that day then an old family friend which was her age comes over to hang with her family and she began to break down...
2007-02-16 08:48:24 · 4 answers · asked by SAL-NICA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and crys to him and tells him all the problem we have so he takes advatage of her and she cheat on me again... now im 21 shes 18 and pregnunt she 13 weeks and doesnt know who the father is... if you read my other questions youll get more details
2007-02-16 08:50:26 · update #1
She seems to have a cheating habit. Fights do not excuse cheating. So if I were you I would get a DNA test on the kid, hopefully it won't be yours and then move on. I think she is likely to continue cheating especially if you keep forgiving her... it'll be a vicious cycle.
2007-02-16 09:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but she doesn't sound like very good mother material, if she can't keep her own personal life healthy and together what kind of a situation is that poor baby going to be born into. Try to get her into counseling because if the baby is yours and you do love her then she needs some help to be mentally and emotionally prepared to be a mom. I am raising three kids in a happy marriage and it's hard, stressful work, imagine what she's in for and that poor kid. Good luck.
2007-02-16 08:55:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG i feel so bad 4 u guys
**hate the guy who took advantage shame on u**
go to the doc after the babi is born and take a test
but now everyone has to help the poor girl even if u think ur not the dad
2007-02-16 08:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet n' Sour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!!! dude im sorry, get a dna test when the baby is born. but i think thta her friend wil walk out when its born and you will stay if you love her so treat it as your own!
2007-02-16 08:53:58 · answer #4 · answered by Gabriella R. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋