hi, im 20 and im getting married next month i really need help! im from a religion where girls dont go to school and we arnt allowed to talk about sex and stuff liek that. the problem is that.. im really shy and i dont know hwo to have sex/ wil anyone pleas tell what happens. my mom tells me that she wants to see her grandchild before she dies. BUT I DONT KNOW A THINGS ABOUT HAVING SEX. i ean i dont even go to school and dont learn about things liek that. so please explain how it will happen :( or im doomed and im to shy to ask my mom
2007-02-16 08:22:09 · 26 answers · asked by angel_93 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
How on earth can you be 20 when you just started your period about a month ago? I checked back on your questions and answers. I figure your about...12.
2007-02-16 08:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should talk to internet people like us about this, You should not be so shy and talk with your mother. I am sorry you don't go to school cause maybe then you would know you can use spell check. LOL sorry kidding.
Sex is between 2 people and you and your boyfriend/hubby will figure it out, Heck your here emailing us. There are plenty sites that will show you the real hard truth.
BUT talk to your mom... 20 is old enough to know. Little fishy question I say...
2007-02-16 16:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by Mary 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a book called Our Bodies, Our Selves that I would highly
recommend to you. Order it on line if you don't want your mom to know you are reading it. Even if you don't get it and can not find out anything prior to your wedding, it's not that hard to figure out when you are in the moment, and you already have all of the necessary equipment, including I hope, an open mind and feelings for your spouse.
2007-02-16 16:27:59 · answer #3 · answered by Rosebudd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, this might sound weird, the man and the woman are naked,you have to give each other positive and exciting comments so ur vagina gets moist and his penis gets erect. then wen this happens,he inserts his penis into ur vagina. he pulls in and out so some white liquid comes out of his penis and this is what gets you pregnant. Sometimes it only takes one sex session to get pregnant but not all the time. hope this helps. if you have sex i suggest you now go for an annual gynecologist exam for a pap smear.
2007-02-20 16:08:29 · answer #4 · answered by blondebeauty97 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband should be kind enough to slowly explain it to you on your wedding night. We cannot go into details on this site as it has children on here and it is against community guidelines to discuss adult content.
Tell your husband to go slow and he should understand and be understanding. He should explain it to you as you go. Nothing we say will really prepare you for the real thing. Relax and remember to let him know what you like and do not like. Communicate and be honest with him as he is your husband and you should be honest with that sort of thing with him. Best wishes and congratulations on your upcoming wedding.
2007-02-16 16:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When the time is right, you will figure out what goes where. In the mean time, if you haven't already had the "talk" with your mom, she might wait till the night before your wedding to have the "talk" with you.
2007-02-16 16:28:49 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go and get a porno. It will explain everything. I know easier said than done. Watch it. Pay attention. Then enjoy. Congrats on the wedding. i bet you are scared. Don't worry things will be okay.
2007-02-16 16:26:47 · answer #7 · answered by _Chantel_ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully your husband to be knows what to do. Otherwise, go rent a sex video, but realize that these are actors and actresses and not all sex is that glamorous
2007-02-16 16:32:37 · answer #8 · answered by N T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to one of your other answers you just got your first period not too long ago. When you are ready things will happen on their own time and you will not need to know how to do it, but you should really talk to your parents if your curious.
2007-02-16 16:32:34 · answer #9 · answered by Trish 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
girl, why does one of your other questions say that you're 13? if u wanted to learn about sex why create such a story? just search the internet dear.
here's a start. the mans "thing"- penis, gets hard and goes into your vagina. thats all im gonna say.
2007-02-16 17:19:14 · answer #10 · answered by SweetDarlin' 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋