When I see any person who is physical disable than I feel him. Sometimes I think if I can take him to my house and look after him than I would be very happy. But I can't. When I see a rich person tortures a poor than I become dishearted but nothing to do. In the past I protested some cases. As a result I have been looser.
2007-02-16 08:06:12 · 3 answers · asked by Manik Sheel 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Be careful, don't project your own desires to get love and support from others, onto those you help, it makes matters worse for you, and is ultimately selfish. Helping others can leave you feeling resentful, empty and more needy, ESPECIALLY if you don't know how to take care of your own needs first. Take care of your own needs first, you cannot truly help someone if you cannot help yourself. Would you rather give others fish so they can eat (eventually you will have no more to give) or would you want to show them how to fish so they can always eat. Can't show someone how to fish if you don't know how yourself. Get it?
2007-02-16 08:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only do your best. Whether a person is rich or poor has nothing to do with there compassion.
You categorizing the compassion as being cruel which makes you a loser. Only you can make yourself into a looser or a winner. Don't blame others.
2007-02-16 08:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by jimmiv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do the same thing. we are good people and that's all that really should mater
2007-02-16 09:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by tabatha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋