it seems like he doesnt want me to have a life/fun without him...but hes in the military,so hes never really around. he doesnt want me around none of my male friends. does that mean hes insecure of himself, or that he just doesnt trust me????
2007-02-16 08:01:59 · 12 answers · asked by Ann S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should NOT be around your "male friends" just out of respect for your boyfriend. He shouldn't have had to make it a rule, YOU just should have done it anyway. Hanging out with the opposite sex, EVEN when you claim they are just "friends" is a dangerous thing. That is how people end up cheating. I know many, MANY girls who tell me that some guy is just their friend, or they love them "like a brother", and then they have sex with them. DUHHHH!!!! You should never put yourself in a situation where you might---just MIGHT---have sex with someone, and if you hang with these "friends", you are putting yourself in the "line of fire" for sexual relations.
2007-02-16 08:08:56 · answer #1 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider this: You work out of state. You have a bunch of cute, single, female friends. Your fiance' becomes friends with them. Would you be cool with him hanging out with them?
He may not trust his friends or you. Talk to him about his feelings.
If he doesn't trust you, maybe you should rethink the marriage. If you guys are having trust issues so early, it will only lead to bigger problems!
2007-02-16 16:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I wouldn't see it as he doesn't trust you....
He doesn't trust your male friends because he knows that 99% of men do not know how to be just friends to a woman. There is ALWAYS a hint of desire there.
2007-02-16 16:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hes jealous and doesnt trust you....ask yourself now before it's too late... do you really want to be married to someone who doesn't trust you?
2007-02-16 16:05:52 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call it off. If there is this little trust or freedom for you now then what later.
2007-02-16 16:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he doesn't trust THEM. Ask yourself if they've given him a reason- do they get all "handsy" even when he's around? Does one of them openly like you? etc.
2007-02-16 16:06:36 · answer #6 · answered by Milana P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably just insecure himself. Let him know how much that bothers you though.
2007-02-16 16:05:38 · answer #7 · answered by E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both. I bet when he hits port he goes out on the town and parties with out you!
2007-02-16 16:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Etheria ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you or have you done things with your male friends? If so, then he is justified in his rules.
If you haven't and you don't, then you should explain this to him.
2007-02-16 16:05:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch that zero and find yourself a hero.
2007-02-16 16:26:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋