I have a friend named Jamar and I feel he is gay. He tried to hump me ate my friend's house and he invited me into his bathroom stall and he was nude!
2007-02-16 07:48:44 · 9 answers · asked by james m 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sounds like he was feeling you out in more than one way! If he invited you into his stall and was nude, that is pretty obvious of a hint. If you are not interested in that part of Jamar, tell him flat out that you respect his feelings but that is one area you are not interested. If you still want to be friends, tell him that also but keep your relationship platonic. Once he nows how you feel, I suspect he will leave that aspect alone. It could also be that he is just doing some sexual experimentation, depending on how old you and he are.
2007-02-16 08:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by Brent W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt be friends with him. I wouldnt have a problem with him being gay but I would not tolerate him trying to eat my friend's house. That is going to far.
2007-02-16 16:34:38 · answer #2 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that you are not gay and not interested in that. If he still wants your friendship he will stop trying to hit on you.
If he doesn't stop, then he isn't that good a friend.
I, for one, have never tried to hit on my straight male friends.
2007-02-16 15:54:34 · answer #3 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
tell him to leave you alone you are not gay. if he continues this type of stuff, tell him good bye you are no longer friends. But if you are interested go for it .
2007-02-16 16:13:00 · answer #4 · answered by jumpinjackdw 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him no that you don't do sex with the guys but that you can still be his friend.
2007-02-16 16:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is cool (for you), but your friend will finally be sad.
2007-02-16 16:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by Henry 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if youre uncomfortable then dont be his friend, his actions towards you would be labeled as sexual harrassment
2007-02-16 17:02:09 · answer #7 · answered by Lacey 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
good lord...he tried to hump you...that is rude
2007-02-16 15:57:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Say good bye...walk away..watch them start crying.
2007-02-16 16:08:56 · answer #9 · answered by Triskelion 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋