ok, here is the situation:
I am a 27 yr old man. I am at a public event (ballgame, the fair, swap meet, etc) and my best friend's daughter, age 3 needs to use the restroom. So i do my friend a favor and take his daughter to the restroom. I'm obviously not going to wait outside while a lilttle girl goes inside, i dont trust anyone plus she may need help.
My question is...
do i escort her and go inside the Mens or Womens restroom? I know some places have family restrooms, but if there is none available...where do i go?
Would it be wrong for a grown man to take a little girl into the mens room? wouldnt it look wrong? especially if nobody else is in there? also there may be other grown men urinating at the urinals in front of her, etc
If i go into the womens restroom, would that be wrong? wouldn't the ladies feel uncomfertable if there is a grown man in there with them?
2007-02-16 07:26:16 · 17 answers · asked by JJ C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When I was young, my father took me into the mens bathroom. Shes only 3, who cares! Shes not going to focus on men "urinating" and if you went into the womens restroom while I was in there, iw ould probably tackle you and make you p!ss out yer mouth.
hope i helped. haha
2007-02-16 07:30:34 · answer #1 · answered by ♥DANyELLE. 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It depends totally upon the man. There is no one feeling that all 42 year old men will have about a 27 year old woman. Some will go after a younger woman because of as midlife crisis. Some men will be looking for a woman they think they can contreol. Others will feel nothing more than paternal feelings for a younger woman. Still others will just be looking for that young "eye candy." Finally, some will have real loving feelings toward her. It's a big age difference. Some couples can have a healthy relationship, some can't.
2016-05-24 07:27:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say ladies restroom. Just because she is a little girl, and doesn't need to be observing men standing around exposed. Ladies wouldn't mind too much, since all the stalls have doors and they see you walking in there with a little girl.
But on the other hand, you see women take little boys in the ladies restrooms all the time. I've seen a couple men take their daughters in the men's room. I think its whichever one you feel is more comfortable for you. Either one would be accepted. I don't think anyone is going to think anything is wrong if you take her into men's room, specially if she is walking in there with you holding your hand or something.
But my vote, still goes to Laides room, because she is a lady. :)
2007-02-16 07:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by jpcjulia 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Take her into the men's restroom. Women bring little boys into the women's restroom. No one cares if a child is in the restroom not associated with their sex, as long as they're accompanied by an adult. If you try going into the women's restroom, women would be greatly offended. Just try to quickly usher her past the urinals and into a stall. My brother takes his 3 year old daughter to the men's restroom all the time.
2007-02-16 07:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by ☆skyblue 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off, its the parents responsibility to take thier little girl to the restroom. Not that your a perv or anything, but if someone questions you taking a little girl into the restroom, it would look better if it was the parent taking the child.
Now to answer your question. You cannot go into the ladies room, not for any reason. So you take the little girl into the mens room. She is young enough that no one will think it wierd. Men have had to take thier daughters into men's room all the time, no one will think twice about it... unless they know you are just the fathers friend who volunteered to take his little girl to the restroom... now that is just wierd.
2007-02-16 07:35:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have a 3 year old daughter and he takes her in the mens restroom all the time. There's nothing wrong with that, and why would you say it looks wrong if no one's in there? Are you a pervert? Why would you even be thinking of that happening? It would be very strange for your friend to ask you to take his 3 year old daughter to the restroom. You would think he would take her himself, being her father.
2007-02-16 07:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have seen this happen before. A nice guy had to take his daughter into the ladies room as she was only 4. No one in the ladies room minded as we would rather see the little girl in with us as opposed to the mens room with men standing around exposed. All ladies rooms have doors so no one cared that he was in there and fully understood why he was there.
2007-02-16 07:31:36 · answer #7 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I would say the men's room... as silly as it is. I think that's more "socially appropriate" than a grown man walking into a women's room... which makes no sense, since we get our own stalls with doors, but that's the way it goes.
2007-02-16 07:31:44 · answer #8 · answered by amyflag 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it would look very wrong if you went into either one.....
If he knows that you might be in a situation where a
restroom might not be readily available, he should consider having her
wear a DIAPER.
I do this when I go out with my 3yr. old son and know that he might pee on
himself before we locate a restroom....
2007-02-16 07:33:45 · answer #9 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Just bring her into the men's. And stand out side her stall.. She is a child she does not care ...
2007-02-16 07:30:45 · answer #10 · answered by adena20 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋