ive posted this before and ppl said that they think that i just have a hard time opening up to people. nope, thats not it. i just feel like we dont have anything in common, like we dont know the same people so we have nothing to talk about. but i find it weird how everybody else in the school has real friends, but i dont so i think its me. what do u guys think?
2007-02-16 07:16:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yup, sounds like you're a loner. There's nothing wrong with that, especially in school. School is only a small part of your life (though it probably seems like everything, right now), and as you have a chance to take part in the adult world, you're more likely to find people you have something in common with.
2007-02-16 07:24:06 · answer #1 · answered by Catana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need to know the same people to have a common bond.
The bond comes between two people who enjoy each other's company. Perhaps someone of similar thinking, & opinions. Do you enjoy conversation in general? I consider myself a loner, because most of the time I enjoy being alone. Yet there are times I enjoy others.
2007-02-16 15:27:24 · answer #2 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all you need to know that probably what you wrote about makes you look as a loner but you sometimes need to lie that you are a friend of someone you dont like just to not be seem as a loner its hard but people judge each other and sometime that makes the person or u feel bad and sad life goes on try to relate to someone probably one day youll like them best of luch
2007-02-16 17:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your supposed to be insecure when your young. It makes you choose a "path" faster. If your cool being a loner then keep doin your thing. If you don't like it then start changing stuff about yourself that your comfortable changing. Repeat as needed for the rest of your life.
2007-02-16 15:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by Tim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋