My boyfriend and i had unprotected sex about 3 weeks ago and now my period should have been from the 9th and up until its still not there. I am worried about it but in the mean time i am afraid to take the test because i dont know what i will do if the test is postive.
My mom would flip, my boss i dont know what he would say because of the position he has, everyone would be so disappointed in me. And i wouldn't want to kill my first child. I have a job but it does not pull that much weight, my partner has one but my job is way way better than his. I dont have any signs of pregnancy and maybe i am worrying myself for nothing
2007-02-16 07:10:04 · 18 answers · asked by neokababy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
take a test and see your doctor all the worrying could be why your period is late
2007-02-16 07:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are causing you own self destruction. You are scared your pregnant but you won't take the test b/c you are scared. Yeah, that makes sense.
You were adult enough to have sex, so be an adult and do what you gotta do. You don't even know if you are pregnant so why are you letting yourself worry so much. And who the hell cares what other people think?? This is YOUR life, not theirs!
Put on your 'big girl panties' and deal with this situation. Take the freakin' test!!! If you are pregnant, great! I tell you, I have 3 kids and they were not all planned. It's never the right time to get pregnant, but when it happens, you adjust your life and accept it. But first you need to find out.
2007-02-16 17:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by amyvnsn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your pregnancy shouldn't get in the way of your job. He can't fire you because you are pregnant. It's against the law. The sooner you know, the sooner everybody will get over it and soon everybody will be happy and excited about it. Me and my girlfriend just found out we are having a baby. She has the same concern about her job, but she's not sweating it. We told our family when we found out. They were so excited! We thought they would be disappointed, but that wasn't the case. They want to support us and make sure we are doing everything right. That is what parents are there for! Good Luck!
2007-02-16 16:27:11 · answer #3 · answered by Isaac C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i think you should go to the doctors and do a test.Are you under alot of stress of your job recently? maybe your period is a bit late I would test in 2 weeks time because that Will give you time for the hormone level HCG and that is the pregnancy hormone, last year when i was pregnant i knew i was so i decided to do test and it came out negative at 12weeks if toy need to talk to someone some time go into my profile and click address then you can email me.Hope every thing works out xxx
2007-02-16 16:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are pregnant then your mom might flip at first but she will soon come round to the prospect of having a grandchild and will support you as that is what moms are good at.at the end of the day she went through the same sort of thing.As far as your boss goes he cant do anything.there are very strict laws protecting us woman against such things and believe me you are very secure in your job.my boss tried to demote me when i was pregnant and I took him to the employment tribunal and got paid out in the end.If you have any problems then go to the citizen advise bureau.It is sometimes hard work getting to see someone at first but once your case is open they are fantastic at helping you and can also put you onto a free lawyer.take the test as you cant hide from it and then go with what needs to be done after.don't tell your boss until you are 3 months pregnant but make sure you do and insist on a risk assessment check.don't allow anyone to push you around when it comes to your health and safety and that of your child's.Be strong and all will be fine.
2007-02-16 15:29:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may not even be pregnant the only thing you can do is take the test. Yeah your boss couldn’t fire you for being pregnant. Hopefully if this is a scare you will not have unprotected sex again till you can handle the consequences.
2007-02-16 15:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by Spread Peace and Love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you continue torturing yourself by guessing if your pregnant or not? Just take a test. Geez......You should have thought about this before you had unprotected sex. I guess the taxpayer's are going to be footing the bill on this one....again. I can see it now. Food stamps, medical card, housing. I think they should make it against the law to get pregnant unless you can afford to support yourself and your child. Ridiculous!!!! Unprotected sex = Pregnancy. DUHHHHH!!!!
2007-02-16 15:50:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
dont worry! it sounds like your getting yourself in a kerfuffle for nothing . yet .
First you need to be sure whether you are pregnant or not . i would advise taking a test asap , i know you dont want to see the results , but if you dont take it you wont stop worrying.
Secondly . dont worry aboutt he job thing yet . worry more about the possible pregnancy!!
2007-02-16 15:15:54 · answer #8 · answered by lauren a 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
stress of not having a period could make it late...take the test so you will know either way...wait 14 days from when your period should have started and use the first morning urine to test....greater chance of a + if it is going to be
2007-02-16 23:45:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be worrying about nothing. Isn't it best to know?
You CANNOT be fired from a job for being pregnant.
Next time THINK ABOUT THE CONSEQUENCES.
2007-02-16 15:20:10 · answer #10 · answered by Goose&Tonic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋