i feel helpless and tired of everything that goes on around me and of how i am
2007-02-16 06:40:01 · 12 answers · asked by .... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just keep swimming...
Really, life is all about ups and downs and you are certainly not alone in your feelings. Right now you are clearly on a down. Try to find the positives in life, no matter how small they might be. Sometimes it helps to dwell on those worse off then you - maybe the dying or the starving or the politcally oppressed... whatever works. Things will work themselves out, they always do.
Be strong.
2007-02-16 06:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by Ghapy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Change whatever you don't like about yourself, with counselling if necessary. You are never helpless unless you choose to be. Life is about making choices, so choose better things around you and a better way to be.
2007-02-16 14:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I understand how you feel. The best way I know is to exercise. Take a walk, go running, ride a bike, or my favorite go swing on the swings at the park. This allows me to get away from people and put my energy into some positive. It allows me to get any anger and stress out also. In fact after this week I am going to take my OWN advice after work! :)
2007-02-16 14:57:28 · answer #3 · answered by fire_goddess444 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun- don't ever give up on yourself. Everyone (and trust me everyone!!) goes through times when they feel helpless. Find someone you can trust (maybe a teacher, grandma or grandpa..) and talk to them. Get things of your chest-it will help you feel better.....and SMILE- tomorrow is a fresh day.
2007-02-16 14:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by stephanie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray ~ or else sleep.
Apart from that, I'll read all of jokes that availabe on the Net and magazines! It's a real best medicine for my stressful life!
Some people would suggest me to cry to get over my worries towards everything but I'm not so emo...
2007-02-16 14:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by PossumNight 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You look around and realize just how lucky you are! You woke up this morning, you can see, you can hear, you can taste, smell and it's a whole new day!
Try to focus on making the world a better place instead of only focusing in on yourself and what all you percieve to be wrong with your life. It will get better if you make it.
Best of Luck...
2007-02-16 14:43:48 · answer #6 · answered by Kbear 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You talk about it.. You stop isolating and get out of yourself.. Help another person that always helps me. There have been many times in my life that I have felt the same way, so I'll tell it to you this way.. God hasn't carried you this far to drop you now.. Put you faith in the Lord and you can surrender.
2007-02-16 14:47:58 · answer #7 · answered by V.S.E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i go out and get wasted...then the next day i wake up, take a shower, cry in the shower and just let the water wash off every bad feeling. I get out and call my mom and she knows how to remind me how important is for me to succeed in life. Don't give up girl...keep up and get over yourself.
2007-02-16 14:44:10 · answer #8 · answered by Dama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell myself that it is just this moment which has me down.
If I exercise patience, the present will turn to the future and the future may very well offer me a better sense and feeling towards myself.
2007-02-16 14:45:05 · answer #9 · answered by skydancerwi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are depresed sweety. You need to talk to someone. Change somthing in your life, your hair style, find some new friends, you can keep the old just find some new ones. Change is good. Try somthing new somthing different!!
2007-02-16 14:44:12 · answer #10 · answered by Mindy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋