I'm 14 and I have this friend who goes on the internet and talks about me. She said that i backstabb and tell others not to be her friend, and by gosh i want her to have friends, she's normally so nice. At school, when she ignores my and our friends none of us have problems. when she tries to be my best friend and my best friends best friend, me and my best friend have horrible fights. WHat Do I Do?
2007-02-16 06:20:32 · 5 answers · asked by sam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This girl is creating nothing but chaos when it comes to you hanging out with your other friends. It could be due to the fact that she wants your undivided attention and she doesn't want you to have other friends. This girl is NOT your friend. She talks about you behind your back, and is stirring up trouble with your other friends. You don't need someone who causes trouble for you in your life. She doesn't deserve your friendship at all. Address the situation to her and let her know that you do not appreciate what she did and it would be best that you are no longer her friend. In the meantime, stay focused on your education and don't worry about people like her. I hope my advice helps you. Good luck.
2007-02-16 06:29:15 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hormones play a big part in this honey, my daughters fourteen and sometimes she comes downstairs in tears over some stupid comment a "friend" has made about her on the internet.you are all going through changes and want to be more grown up than you are.real friends do not ever talk behind your back nastily or slag you off. my daughter has been devasted by horrible girls who are jealous of her being friends with other people.i've heard her give as good as she gets so i know shes no saint either. girls have to learn that they are not in competition with each other .if you cant resolve it, you can either accept it and move on or confront them very nicely telling then how upset you are and what it is you've done to make her behave so badly. maybe you fit in better and shes jealous of the attention you get. you wont know till you ask. good luck
2007-02-16 10:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by kazzy3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You call this a friend she's a real foe, i think that you must try to avoid her as much as you can but if she continues her sadistic business you will have to have a serious discussion. Further more maybe, i think, that she want 2 b ur only best friend and that she does not have any bad intentions!
2007-02-16 06:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by MARC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously she isnt really your friend if she talks about you behind your back...... i have friends that do that to my other friends.... its not your problem she doesnt have friends, she needs to learn herself that you can't just say things and then everything is just all right, but idk.... i hope i helped you out a bit'...... bye
2007-02-16 07:07:12 · answer #4 · answered by Taylor A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick her butt to the curn she's nothing but havoc
2007-02-16 06:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by OkieOk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋