I asked my daughter several times and she says no.
2007-02-16 05:56:08 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
OF COURSE SHES GOING TO SAY NO, because first your her mom and second she a teenager...i guess the way that you can tell is by paying attention to her...pay attention to the way she dresses....that always gives it away....13 year old try to colm their hair nicer,they want to be cleaner and more organize..
they find the need to nice and preatty all the time. you can always try to look at her folder( thats not cool...but you can try to see if she doesnt have a boys name with little hearts all over her folder. GOOD LUCK!
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2007-02-16 06:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by ana u 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are starting to nag her. Just stop asking for now. She may feel that you may be upset with her the way you nag. Tell her that if she does have a bf there will be some rules and that haveing a bf is a very mature thing and that if she does have a bf that you would hope that she is mature enough to be open and honest because you do not want lies to get in the way. Tell her you are her mom and you need to know these things but if you find out she lies she is grounded and cant date for 2 more years
2007-02-16 14:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by I hate stupid ppl like you 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please take the advice from me. I am 14 yrs. old and most girls do want innocent relationships,But the guys DONT! So it's really not your daughter you have to worry about it's the guys. All they want at this age is sex. Yea I know it might sound crazy but it's true. I had a boyfriend (my mom let me) and he wanted me to have sex with him. I broke up with him, and I told him why too. You might not believe me but i said to him we are to young for sex. Some girls are very niave and they do it.
As for knowing if your daughter has a bf.
1) If she usually isn't so jumpy and bubbly. An she suddenly is then. There we go!
2) If she doesnt tell you where she is going.
3) If she has grown distant from you and your husband.
Good Luck
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2007-02-16 17:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i was 13 i kinda did. I mean the average romance is like 2 weeks, u cant just say no or yell at her. First she'll be imbaressed and what happens at school happens at school, there not doing anything so relax dont keep nagging.
Do pay attention to the signs like, talking on the phone
Stories about one certain boy, laughing over everything, turning red over the word "boyfreind."
Let her come to u.
2007-02-16 16:52:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i dont think you should be horribly concerned. telling her she cant date will only make her rebel and at 13 most girls just have inocent relationships. i would be worried though if she hasnt had the best guildlines yet. she need a sex talk. i've had a few friends that lost their verginity at 13 but those girls never had the best home lives. and trying to control her from dating will only lead her to rebel. let her do her thing and have fun with having a "boyfriend" im sure its inocent but you still need to have a talk with her.
2007-02-16 14:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay if she trust you and she knows you wont explode than she would tell you but if your likee several mom that once you know a guy is following her in a good way like in a crush you are up on her than you need to chill and relax take a 5 minute brake and ask yourself i was once 13 did i like someone and had a boyfriend !!! reflect on yourself....... and if she says no than she might say it for a reason
2007-02-20 17:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by Mariana R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, are you asking her like it's bad thing to have a boyfriend? If she thinks you will be mad that she has a boyfriend, then obviously she will deny it. But if you just want to know, talk with her first and tell her it's okay to have one, but make sure you don't shove lectures down her throat. Just don't tell her it's not right. Every adolescent has little boyfriend/girlfriend relationships. It's life.
2007-02-16 14:40:21 · answer #7 · answered by Isaac C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok being a 13 yr old myself i figure if she's not allowed to have 1 but really likes some1 or wants 1 she might go behind your back because u arent giving her the freedom she wants.but if she's a good girl(like me) and u trust her enough she's probably not lying.
i think it would be really hard for your mom to catch you if u were sneaking behind her back because i see people do it and get away with it
good luck <3
2007-02-16 14:07:24 · answer #8 · answered by ♥§o contagiou§♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably dosent have a bf then. But if you are pretty positive she does just make her feel comfertable to bring it up, and just tell her that it is okay to open up about htis kind of stuff, cause you are her mother i am 13 also and i have gone through the same thing. best of luck!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-16 14:11:15 · answer #9 · answered by brunette234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there isnt really a way that you act when you have a boyfriend. So therefore if she is acting or telling you that she doesnt have one all you can do is pray for her and hope shes not lieing to you. She will make her own choices but just hope for the best for her
2007-02-16 14:20:21 · answer #10 · answered by lagunachic07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋