Only serious answers please. Most my life men have been interested in me. I've had guy friends when I was younger and have a couple now... when I say "friends" I mean men I've never dated. There is a guy in my life that use to like me that no longer does... I like him but don't want to express this to him... I have in the past and he said he didn't share the same feelings. He wants to be friends with me, I want to be friends with him... but it's difficult... knowing he use to like me makes me feel like a loser somehow because he no longer does. And besides I really don't know what to talk to him about? Can you help!
2007-02-16 05:46:22 · 8 answers · asked by assezaime 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It is an akward situation to just be friends, especially when it comes to men. The best thing that you can do for yourself is to continue to be his friend, if you're comfortable with that. You said that you don't want to say anything to him- keep it that way. Go out there and meet new people. If you want to, you could talk to him about the whole situation and see what he has to say about it. If not, don't worry. I was in the same boat as you are. I had feeling for my best male friend, whom I have known for 4 years. We had feelings for each other at one point, but we thought that it would be best for us to be friends. I'm comfortable with the siuation and so is he. I hope my advice helps you. Good luck.
2007-02-16 05:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of my friends are guys including a couple of ex's. One in particular I still care about but we do our best to keep distance till we get over eachother but still communicate over the internet.
2007-02-16 05:52:49 · answer #2 · answered by JAMI E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure dat u express ur feelings 2 da person whom u want as only a friend.
2007-02-16 05:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by pheonix_coolfire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately that's life!! yep you cant have a male friend and either you or him NOT have any feelings involved. you spend time together, they know you better than any other person, so sometimes that really classifies as a relationship!! unless their gay, than you're alright!!
2007-02-16 05:52:02 · answer #4 · answered by Nadia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well stop TRYING 2b friends cuz then u feel like something is expected of u: a real friend doesnt expect anything of u
2007-02-16 06:03:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be flirty and act like u would if u were around girl friends so he knows u wanna be friends but still have fellings for him!
2007-02-16 05:51:03 · answer #6 · answered by Trish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only want him now because you can't have him...makes him more of challenge...
2007-02-16 05:51:39 · answer #7 · answered by tx girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant unless he is gay or a relative
2007-02-16 05:48:34 · answer #8 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋