Heey well I am 12 my best friend is a boy I would like to step our relationship up a little notch he saiz he doesnt want to go out with me just all my other friends he wants to go out with , what should I do to improve ? PLEASE HELP
2007-02-16 05:32:33 · 7 answers · asked by babypimpette*inthehood 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Stick with the friendship. Don't risk losing you best friend because you want "more." He might see you as a "sister" rather than girlfriend material.... and it just isn't worth losing a friendship because you are wanting more. Besides... what is "more" to a 12 year old girl? Maybe he has more sense then you give him credit for. At 12, while you may truly value friendship.... you just aren't ready to move to the next "notch" of relationship status. Keep it friendly... if it is meant to be, he will start looking at you as potential girlfriend material in the next few years. Give him time. But don't "rush" a boy... they hate that!!! And whatever you do, don't offer your "body" as a reward for dating you... be proud of who you are, protect what you have.... your body is valuable... and not something to be passed around just because you want to step it up a notch.
2007-02-16 05:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about improving your relationship with your male friend. You're too young to "step it up a little notch." Focus on your education and don't worry about dudes. Continue to be his friend and your time will come. In the meantime, keep your head in those books. Best of luck to you.
2007-02-16 13:44:58 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 12, your too young for a relationship yet, but if you wanted relationship advice communication is important and so is trust. If you dont have communication and trust a relationship cant work.
2007-02-16 13:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by give_god_a_chance2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you kidding why force him .if he don't wanna mess around then just bug off you little twit.why not get a hobby and get your mind out of the gutter you need a good spanking bend over
2007-02-16 13:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are only12 and if he don't want you. Then find a boy who does.Theres other fish in the sea kid.
2007-02-16 13:37:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be ur self dont be all fake and make him like you for the wrong reasons if he dont like you just find someone else ur still young
2007-02-16 13:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by devon a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until you are 15 and then ask again
2007-02-16 13:36:48 · answer #7 · answered by jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋