on valentines day my boy friend wanted me 2 go back to his place but i refused cuz i had school the next day, he had took the whole day off from his job for me, he got mad and said i wasted his time, and now we're not talkin. what should i do?
2007-02-16 05:06:07 · 13 answers · asked by althea g 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
Dump him.
Anyone who does something nice for another person and expects compensation is a jerk. He`s a real piece of crap and if you go back to him, you`ll have taught him that A) he can get away with such behaviour and B) that you are a person who is easily bullied.
You deserve better.
2007-02-16 05:16:03 · answer #1 · answered by Gallifrey's Gone 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I say~ Drop him. There are many many good guys out there that don't expect you to jump to their every given whim. Red flag. Argued. Those who love and care for a deeper relationship don't get into arguing with those they care about. They don't get mad. They talk about the problem. List all the things that you want in a guy and let each one fill the application.... Most girls "settle" for what they think is okay and that the man will change. Nope they dont'. When you find yourself not "settling" and expecting the upmost respect and letting them know what you want and what you won't tolerate then you will find a good one. I think that he was seeking a little something more and you turned it down and that upset him.. Well if thats the case make him take off a week and go for a cruise. But the question is what do you want and what are you willing to tolerate, expect etc. in a relationship.
2016-05-24 07:07:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy that tells you that you wasted his time is obviously not worth your time. He only took off the whole day because he thought you would go back to his place and he would get lucky. You need to kick his lame a** to the curb and get somebody who will respect you and not think of you as a waste of time or a booty call.....
2007-02-16 05:15:26 · answer #3 · answered by Scooter Girl 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he took the day off work because he needed the time to prepare something really special for you in his apartment and you ruined it by not wanting to go. For all you know he could have has chocolate covered strawberries and a bottle of champaigne waiting for you in his apartment lit by many, many little red candles circling a bed of rose pedals. But now you will never know because you ruined it.
2007-02-16 05:49:39 · answer #4 · answered by MariChelita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first if he really took time for you give him a little some thing but if he got mad for only one night of not getting none then find some one else because he sounds like a jerk u can do better .
2007-02-16 05:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by rolando m 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that all he wanted was a doormat, so when he gets lonely he always knows when he comes back you'll be there, well, Hun give him a suprise, and get rid of him, u deserve better.
2007-02-19 14:21:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he took the day off so you could please him all day? I'd keep not talking to him. Sounds like a selfish guy to me. It's not like he took the day off to take you out or do something for you - he took it off to get laid. I'm not saying sex isn't great (with the right person) but it sounds like he was thinking about himself - not you.
2007-02-16 05:15:20 · answer #7 · answered by pookiemct07 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you behaved responsibly and it appears he behaved childishly. Maybe you should find someone more mature or hold off dating on school nights.
2007-02-16 05:21:16 · answer #8 · answered by bum-fuzzled 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just wanted it to be perfect he had taken the day off work to be with you and wanted you to spend the night with him. Ever couple as arguements. Make it up to him.
2007-02-16 05:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by kazz06 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need an operation for the curvature of the spine, then I think he will appreciate you more.
2007-02-16 05:19:56 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋