They feel guilty, they regret it, they will never do it again. Should they tell their partner?
2007-02-16 04:42:43 · 10 answers · asked by KB 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Please note I ask these questions to see peoples thoughts, they are not personal experiences!
2007-02-16 04:48:55 · update #1
I would want to know. I think if someone has a weak moment then they need to ask why they were tempted, why were they in a place/situation to get tempted, and how are they sure temptation would never happen again?
I was cheated on once and I found out from other people. I didn't get mad at the other people, but just didn't understand why it took someone innocently correcting my facts of where my boyfriend was for me to put two and two together. Yes I was pissed and hurt, but I am thankful to know and thankful I left that relationship.
I think in the end, to tell or not to tell depends on who you are with. Some people want to live life with blinders on and the motto what they don't know won't hurt them. I personally want to live my life knowing all the aspects of what surrounds me. Yeah somethings hurt, but I would rather grow from the painful experience then feel left in the dark.
2007-02-16 05:05:19 · answer #1 · answered by nbczero 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes...then it is up to your partner to forgive you. You made the mistake and you must face the consequences. Lying to your partner will only make it worse...and if they can't forgive you then losing that person is the consequence of your weak moment. If you can be forgiven then I wish you all the best.
2007-02-16 12:49:25 · answer #2 · answered by madges_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to be honest.. been their done that..and it ain't a pretty feeling...the guilt trips..thinking what will happen if they found out...Honestly i never and have never said a word to my partner about that night...And well that is something that is never going to leave your mind..But move on i did and we are happy together.
2007-02-16 12:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by queenisis1974 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell my parnter if i did that. the guilt would eat me alive aand kill me if i never told him... yes he could leave me but i would rather be in an honest relationship than a dishonest one at that...
2007-02-16 12:49:57 · answer #4 · answered by laa dee da 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no If my guy cheated only once, I'd rather not know. If it's an ongoing affair, you should tell her though.
2007-02-16 12:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no justification and they WILL do it again. Once a cheat, always a cheat.
2007-02-16 12:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
depends, if it is a guy, then no, if it is a girl then yes and she should be cast to the hounds as a dirty whore.
2007-02-16 12:49:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say no...just my opinion...but don't do it again.
2007-02-16 12:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by Marrakesh 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no way,, what they dont know wont hurt them
2007-02-16 12:46:57 · answer #9 · answered by rich2481 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please don't. Why air your guilt and hurt your partner?
2007-02-16 12:47:17 · answer #10 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋