I have this friend who at one time was a great best friend. but in the last few years he has been become confusing and quite crappy, he makes plans and flakes, then he turns around and ask me why didn't I show up, he emails me saying hey give me your number I am going to call you and then doesn't..then if I don't call him for a while he acts mad..I think he is playing some kind of wierd mind game.. we at one time or another flirted with the idea of dating but never happened..two weeks ago he sent me a message asking for my number.. then he never called.. I have given the guy my number several times.. he says he loses it over and over, seems wierd since we have known each other 13 years.. and I have had this number for over 2 years. then when I ask him about it he makes up wierd excuses.especially when he is supposed to hang out with me.he's like I know I was supposed to call you to tell you the date and time. but I ran out of min. cause I talk on the phone to much to other people huh?
2007-02-16 04:38:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Personally, I'd give up on him. With as many times as you've given him your number (and apparently he has other ways of contacting you) I'd say if he really wants to put things back together with the two of you, then he can make the effort. You've tried, and he has flaked. Friendship has to go both ways. A friendship with only one side providing the effort isn't healthy.
2007-02-16 05:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by yama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am not sure...he is either crazy or he is in love with you...Usually guys are a little scared if they fall in love, especialy if they think you are not in love with them, they try to protect themselvs from suffering...I am not saying that this is the problem...he might have heard some lies or someone told him some not-very-nice things about you. Talk to him, ask him what's wrong, make him belive that if there is something wrong you will both try to solve it. I don't think not talking to him or ignore him will help, but if you realy think he is crazy you should stay away from him....and an other thing, he might belive you are in love with him, and he only sees you just as a friend, he wouldn't want you to belive that there is more between you , than just a friendship. good luck
2007-02-16 05:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by ady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does "particular circumstances" advise that he's married? if so, you're able to bypass away him by myself because of the fact he does not belong to you. human beings enable their "emotions" dictate too many of their judgements and that they do no longer use their heads, which finally ends up getting them into difficulty(and harm) in a while. unsure what those circumstances are, yet I could suspect he's married or you would be posting this in the singles and relationship section top? If he's not married, yet no sturdy for then you you definately are nevertheless greater valuable off devoid of him. It hurts for awhile, yet time heals all wounds and we've all been for the time of the harm of a old flame quicker or later. bypass out, make new pals, get entangled with greater events. In time, you will see which you would be satisfied lower back, whether it ability devoid of him.
2016-11-23 13:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, he'shigh maintainence with little return. Just drop him. If he asks for your number again, tell him to rummage through his papers and find it.
2007-02-16 04:53:18 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop talking to him hes a wierdo .and if you stop talking to him maybe you dont have to worry about him being mad at you cuz you wont know. and if he ends up calling you then dont answer.hes stupid or not interested .maybe hes playing mind games.
2007-02-16 04:49:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be better off cutting him him. No man is worth such aggrivation
2007-02-16 05:24:54 · answer #6 · answered by toronto_leafs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be unhappy is a choice – so why be? Move on – he is full of it to the full mark.
2007-02-16 05:04:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋