My brother's gay and the other day it just got me thinking about whether I was into girls. Growing up I'm more comfortable around girls; have more friends who are girls. But I also felt a bit jealous if I found out my friend was going to see another friend or something. (Which I guess is normal to the extent if you're really good friends). Being the youngest in my family I think I was slightly jealous cause I didn't have anyone around and at my age who I could relate to.
There's hype about lesbians, gays issues to this day (marriage and adoption in particular) and I was wondering and thinking about how comfortable I'd feel to going out with a girl-which I think I'm fine about it. I'm open to the idea. But I'm into guys (and have since I hit puberty). Does that make me a bisexual if I'm comfortable with it? I've never kissed a girl so I guess I'd have to find out and see if I feel anything
Also what's the 'common age' bisexuals and gays are aware of your sexuality? My brother was 18.
2007-02-16 04:10:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I have to agree with the not "labeling" yourself yet. It seems that you are just curious and that is pretty normal. I'd try it out, and if you enjoy the experience then you have your answer. Personally, I dig girls on occasion. I'm not into the dating them though. It's more of a sexual attraction. I feel closer relationshipwise to men. Even though I have experimented with and kissed a few girls, since I was 19... I didn't actually come to the realization that I was Bi until about 6 months ago. Don't worry about the label, but do what you feel is right and try things out. Don't look at it as a mistake if you feel like you don't like it. You'll never know unless you try. Life's about learning lessons.
2007-02-16 04:18:51 · answer #1 · answered by annwn1440 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That'a a stereotype, i'm bi yet i'd not in any respect date a lady and a guy mutually,no longer regardless of in the adventure that they were cool with it reason in the top someone or anybody receives harm(all those emotions,one relationship is troublesome sufficient you do not did more beneficial chaos through attempting to juggle 2 or combining them into one),ya understand i imagine that is like dishonest,it is faulty. So, yeah i'd date a bisexual, i does no longer get jealous a lot less complicated reason the guy i go with will be someone i no i can believe.
2016-12-04 06:21:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever been sexually attracted to a girl or had a crush on a girl? If no, then you're straight.
If you are genuinely attracted to a girl, then go ahead and date and kiss her. But if you aren't, I think it's a bad idea to "try it and see just in case." For one thing, you'd already know it if you were into girls. Secondly, you might break someone's heart by dating her and kissing and then deciding later than you don't like her that way.
2007-02-16 04:19:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You havent even kissed a girl and youre wondering if youre Bi?? Have you kissed a boy yet?? You shouldnt be caught up with labels at this young age.
Just go with the flow. Try girls. No like, then try something else. Sure youre into guys - youre one of them, and youre not at the age where you find women all that interesting - that doesnt make you gay or bi. Do you find yourself sexual stimulated at the sight of men?? THATS the clue if youre gay or bi...
2007-02-16 04:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by YDoncha_Blowme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being open-minded to the idea of same sex relationships doesn't necessarily make you bisexual. Being bisexual basically means you are attracted to both guys and girls and would feel equally comfortable in a relationship with either.
2007-02-16 04:16:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until college to find out or 18. That is the time to experiment without getting the social repercussions.
2007-02-16 04:15:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can know. you probably like girls... maybe not sexually but as friends. if you are sure you like guys then you are safe somewhere. don't force yourself into anything... if you feel you're gay then you're gay (don't let others make the decision for you) and if you aren't then you aren't.... have you come out publicly yet? you might have done it too soon but that doesn'y mean that you shouldn't... do what you need to do and don't let nayone choose for you.
2007-02-16 04:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It almost sounds to me that you are overly concerned about these issues and what it all means to you. I would suggest that you just be yourself, and let life flow along. You have girls who are friends, and you have guys that are friends. Let nature take its course.
2007-02-16 04:15:14 · answer #8 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't fret about these things they will only make you crazy
just go with your heart and all will work out fine.
2007-02-16 04:14:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
put it this way, if you're thinking about doing ANYTHING sexual with smeone of the same gender, and still like sex with the opposite gender, then yes, you're bi
2007-02-16 06:14:12 · answer #10 · answered by Hu$tleman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋