Have you seen The Secret? What if you don't know what you want?

Question

I've seen The Secret and have thought alot about it. I have no idea what I want out of life. Do you think that means that what I want is to have an unsure life? I tried to do a vision board, but what is appealing changes day to day. How can the same things be appealling for 5 years, 20 years, forever!!?? Does anyone else struggle with not having a clue about what they want?

Answer 1

Wendy,

Most of us don't have one specific want in life, we change as we grow, we change depending on how we feel each day and we change depending on who we are around.

What you want to do, is to first start off with learning how to accept good things into your life. Be appreciative when someone compliments you on your outfit or a new hair style. Don't just say, oh this old thing. Really enjoy their compliment. This way you are starting the flow of positive energy into your body. You want to learn the acceptance.

Once you can accept good things in your life you can start to focus on what you want. You can start sending out signals. Do you want to become healthier, have more money, have more friends? If you want ot become healthier, then you yourself get the ball rolling and start doing it or yourself, once your positive energy gets out there, positive energy will return back.

If you want more money, you have to be willing to part with some. Be generous, give to charities. Once you start giving, you will start getting.

The power behind the Secret is not just to want something but to be willing to also give. By giving, you open up the lines for getting.

The Secret works by law of attraction. Likes attract.

Answer 2

Yeah i think thats a problem a lot of people have in life, they just dont know what they want. I am kindof in a similar boat, in that Im not exactly sure what i want. I have started to write things down and am in the process of trying to figure out what exactly it is that i want and in doing so im starting to see similar things being put down on paper which shows to me that these things are things i really want. I say get a sheet of paper and start writing down things you really want. and as you go keep updating the list. I think eventually you'll find something that is really important to you. If you start listing things like money or vacation try to get more specific like what you would do with the money, how you would spend the money, often time people want money but in reality its not the money they want but what the money can get them thats really important.

Answer 3

What kind of secret are you talking about ? I know what I want in my life. A person who does not know what she /he wants in his/her life is like a fallen leaf,that the wind blows it any where ,with no direction. Our mind is expanding or growing, learning all the knowlege from our experience,that is why our character is not lock, unless we have stagnant mentality.

Answer 4

Yes, i too have this same question being raised many times before.But, i still haven't find the answer.Its like u r living and passing by the days as it comes, not sure what to do and how to do...