2007-02-16 03:25:02 · 8 answers · asked by neha 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Love is sweet and unfullfiled expectations are painful.Do not expect anything from the other person .....Just live in the sweet memories.I know it hurts alot. All I can say is try to indulge your self in different things and keep a practical out look towards life.THEN,
Ask yourself One who hurts you,Does he really Deserves you?
M sure you'll get your answer.
2007-02-16 03:33:37 · answer #1 · answered by pooja a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On your own you can have the greatest inner strength. When you fall in love you put yourself in a defenseless position. You are totally in the power of the person you love. On the one hand it feels very nice, but on the other you are totally at the persons mercy. That is the painful side of love.
2007-02-16 11:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by Kool-kat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because its the strongest thing there is in the whole world. Love can be so strong that it hurts someone. Its not always a bad thing. Love can hurt you in different ways...when it ababandons you then it hurts in a bad way. When you love someone so much that it physcally hurts...then you're suppose to enjoy it. enjoy it while it lasts...which hopefully it will forever.
rewmember this "BEING LOVED IS WHEN YOU FEEL SO HAPPY AND APPRECIATED ON THE INSIDE THAT YOU GLOW ON THE OUTSIDE." DO YOU FEEL THAT GLOW?
2007-02-16 11:31:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me love is an illusion that should be hindered very much. i believe one should not fall in love because everything in this world disppears and fades. you, your family and everything thats living and breathing right now in this earth will fade. you should be more concentrated on how u could make ur own life better and try hard to not fall in "love" because you HAVE to depend on another to make u happy. humans are naturally evil and they do evil things, one could lie to u simply to have sex with you only then after they go on to the next partner, ALL humans are evil and they all do bad things that do others will not find to be good. to me, intimacy is what love is all about and intimacy to me is nothing but biological impulses flowing through your mind, body and veins in order to do what this mechanism we are all born with (by mechanism i mean ur body) to do... which is to reproduce. so i think love is probably just something ur mind plays tricks on because its tries so hard to do what it naturally does...which is to reproduce and u fall in love because it gives ur warmth comfort etc which i believe is something cleverly feed to you from your mind just to reproduce... so to me love is just impluses feed from ur body and u gotta learn to chop those urges off or all those bad droggy feelings u might get because its just ur biology doing that stuff in order to clinch onto others...i dont know
2007-02-16 11:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by blazintildadeath 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not if you find the right person. Sometimes I feel like I love my boyfriend so much it hurts me. I love the feeling tho and nothing is better.
2007-02-16 11:27:43 · answer #5 · answered by ~J*me~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not just love, life is painful, life is very painful, but theres also good times...yin and yang , levels this world out
2007-02-16 11:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by LostMyMind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything worthy can be painful.
2007-02-16 11:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by Numb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because when its over it gives you heartache, when you're in it it gives you backache, and before it starts it gives you lonelyache.
2007-02-16 11:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by Hannah 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋