ive recently added this girl on msn, she's quite pretty and nice but for some reason i always think about her im really worried about my sexuality i want to be striaght and i find some boys attractive but i also find girls attractive as well does this mean im bisexual or is it just a phase?
2007-02-16 03:21:39 · 19 answers · asked by Katherine C 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
im 14 and i really could do with someone to talk to that feels like me maybe now or at one stage of their life?
2007-02-16 03:35:56 · update #1
im 14 and i really could do with someone to talk to that feels like me maybe now or at one stage of their life? add me kitkatcubes_765@hotmail.com
2007-02-16 03:36:14 · update #2
It could be just a phase. I've been there, done that lol When you're a teenager your hormones are going mad, so you often can feel attracted to people who have the same sex as yours....but if in time, you still feel attracted by women, well that'd mean you're bisexual... I have some bi friends who say it's just taking the best from the 2 sexes..and honey, whatever you are, just keep your chin up. most people will respect you for what you are...and if they don't, please remember that they're the ones who lack something.
2007-02-16 03:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by Sylvia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are simply open to love, wherever it comes from. I had a girl friend that I felt attracted to - we even had a night or 2 together where we could explore these feelings, but in the end I just could not get into the physical side of a same sex relationship - so for me the answer was clear. As you go on in life, the answer will become clear to you too - don't sweat it.
Peace!
2007-02-16 03:26:54 · answer #2 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your Bisexual, that means you had sex with both a man and woman at different times. Now when you say "fallen," do you mean in love or something like that? Well, I think it's natural for girls to like other girls because at my school, the girls hug and sometimes kiss(not intentionally) and hold hands and stuff like that. Nothing is wrong with you at all. Just don't kiss for a long time and make sure you don't have sex with her too. Have a great day precious!
2007-02-16 03:27:36 · answer #3 · answered by TheTallGuy55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be just a phase, bit I think it's pretty normal to notice how attractive other girls are. Just because you notice how attractive or unattractve they are doesn't make you bi or lesbian. If you fantasize about performing sexual acts with her that might mean something, but you sound very young and I'm guessing you haven't been with a guy or a girl yet sexually, so your mind is just exploring and hasn't figured out exactly what it likes yet.
2007-02-16 03:29:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
Have you "experimented " with girls before?
It could be that you are bisexual, and there is nothing wrong with that!
It just means that you can have your pie and eat it too! lol
It could be a phase, or just an attraction you have to this girl. Is there something that you like about her, other than her looks like a strong character, honesty, loyalty?
If your curious and open minded I say try it! There is nothing wrong w/you. :)
2007-02-16 03:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you find her nice and attractive, you either want her to be a really good friend or you are in love with her. There is nothing wrong with that!
2007-02-16 03:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by nicce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural for girls to find other girls attractive. You should try to find a friend that is bi or a lesbain and explain to her that you are trying to figure your feeling out, go out with her one night and see what your feeling are. If you don't really feel nothing, than it could be nothing.
2007-02-16 03:26:50 · answer #7 · answered by blebert2002 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's just a phase or maybe you're bi. Don't panic. Give yourself time to figure it out.
2007-02-16 03:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i find women pretty too..... i will look at a girl before i look ta a guy....
i just find women amazing... our bodies are so curvy.... plus think about what we can do with our bodies.... we can bring another human into this world.... that just blows my mind!
but i;m married to man and i still find men attractive....my hubby and i rate girls together... its fun!
Threre's noting wrong with it......
2007-02-16 03:26:54 · answer #9 · answered by laydenirvine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be desperate if you met her on msn. Dont you know that yahoo is the way to go?
2007-02-16 03:24:52 · answer #10 · answered by the_hells_that 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋