Today i feel empty inside i feel life less im only 21 and ust start my life. My girlfriend the women of my dreams i thought i had it all. on Valentines of 2007 i find out my girlfriend is pregnunt i was so happy and excited. but she was acthing wierd i ask whats wrong you should be happy you always wanted to have a baby.. Then she says thats the problem i want to have your baby....i felt my heart sank...i refused to belive what she said then i ask her what do you mean...she tells me im sorry i messed up i love you your my everything but theres a chance the baby isnt yours...shes has known that she was pregnunt since jan of 07 and tell me now... the next day which was the 15th of feb i get pull over for driving on H O V lane that night i get in a car accident today im at work and i feel lost i love her so much the women of my dream is having baby and it could be somebody elses...if you can please read my other question so you can read the rest of this story... LOVE IS PAIN
2007-02-16 03:02:14 · 5 answers · asked by SAL-NICA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh, sorry about that pain of love. It does happen like that all over the world. Indeed, it happens with married couples such that the man will discover that not all the children that have been calling him 'daddy' are his own.
In your own case, the matter is much simpler. You are not married to her yet, so divorce and its complications are out of it. The child is not born yet, not to talk of having been old enough to know you as 'daddy'.
Take heart, my friend. Fake love truly is pain. True love is bliss.
2007-02-17 01:19:35 · answer #1 · answered by peaceman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karma is a real thing, not spiritual. Karma is the passing of energy. If you are an *** and that is how you treat people then you pass negative energy to them which changes the way they feel and act. The positive or negative energy (mood) you pass to someone gets passed on again to the next person they interact with and it continues like ripples in a pond. Karma comes back to you by changing the way people view you and therefore interact with you. Spread bad and get bad back, spread good and get good back. However, you are just having some bad luck.
2016-05-24 06:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not bad luck or karma, it's bad life choices. Get over it. You'll find out if the baby is yours in 7 months or so, it's not that long and it gives you 7 months to figure out if you can forgive her and grow, or if you are gong to break up.
The HOV thing is your fault, you know better.
The wreck is probably your mind not being on driving like it should be.
People make mistakes, get over it.
2007-02-16 03:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a dramatic fool you are! If you love this girl, talk it out and accept her mistake and love the baby no matter who the daddy is. YOU are making yourself miserable. Nobody else!
2007-02-16 03:12:35 · answer #4 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really love her,accept her.
2007-02-16 03:07:13 · answer #5 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋