1 - Same time every Sunday Morning, in the bedroom, same position, identical routine foreplay
9 - never the same place, day, time or position twice in a row
10 - would get me thrown off of Answers again
Please ID yourself if married and for how long, and what the number was before marriage
2007-02-16 02:44:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're all liars and braggers!
2007-02-16 03:01:50 · update #1
10, FROM BEGINING.
2007-02-16 02:49:19 · answer #1 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
3
2007-02-16 11:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by kielbasa7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Zero. Nothing for 3 years. Married for 33 years. Wife has stopped participating for some reason that is not very clear even when I ask her and explain what she should be doing and why.
One odd thing, is when we are in public and in church she always sits real close, stands real close, holds hands, smiles, laughs a lot and seems really sexy and interested in me. But at home it is only cuddle time and neck massage or back rubs for her. She does not seem to know how to give a good massage to any part of the body (never has). I have even tried to show her, and purchased books, but she does not even read them or even look at the pictures.
She seems totally amotivated and will not tell me why, except occasionally will mention an old girl friend of mine that I ran into at our High School 30 year reunion. My old girl friend is happly married with three kids living 2000 miles away and is not intested in hooking up with me, so I am mistified by my wife's behavior. I can not get her to explain her behavior. I try to show physical interest, romantic interest, all the cuddling and massages she wants, do and say nothing but nice things, do nothing sexy on my own in any way, for months at a time, etc, but in the last few weeks have just given up trying to work with her on this issue. Don't even want to hold hands or massage her or be close or anything. Does not look promising. I am resigned to sex alone.
For the first 20 years of our marriage our sex life was pretty good, although she was never interested in branching out much or trying new things like I was and did some. We had two healthy boys who are away in college and pretty much on their own with girl friends and starting their careers.
One thing is she is taking a mild anti depressant and it has changed her emotional state somewhat. She giggles loudly at things that are not that funny, like she has had a martini. She does not worry about important things and try to take care of them. She just floats through her days and goes to bed early. I think the medication is depressing her sex drive, but she likes the pills better than sex with me or sex at all (I'm not sure about what she does when she is at home alone which is two days aweek.) evidently.
Before marriage we had sex at least once a day.
2007-02-16 13:33:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
About - 25.
2007-02-16 10:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, about a steady 9. Don't want you to get bounced on my account, lol.
Married, 36 yrs. We were probably an 11 when we got married. We don't do as much trapeze work these days, but we still satisfy.
2007-02-16 11:29:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 18 years so I'm not lying. I would rate it
at about 50/50 10 of that will probably get you reported but, not by me.
2007-02-16 11:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by Williamstown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married 17 years Would get me thrown off answers again.
We do it all the time. We act like rabbits
2007-02-16 10:53:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we have been together for 7 years(it was funner in the begining) but i have had 2 kids gained weight, and am not as comfortable with myself as i used to be. plus i'm not a po** star!! we have been married for three years i give it a 8in a half but he'd probably say a 6
2007-02-16 10:52:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5
Married for 11 years
before marriage probably a 7 or 8
2007-02-16 10:52:12 · answer #9 · answered by Jewel 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
we are about a 10, we've been married for almost 3 years now! before we were married, it was a 10 as well. we've never had a problem in that department!
2007-02-16 10:59:07 · answer #10 · answered by Carrie H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now 2, before kids 12- we aren't married we just live together. been together for 5 1/2 years and have 2 kids. its just me though, not interested anymore. could care less if we ever did it again
2007-02-16 11:38:12 · answer #11 · answered by bunny_ac_98_98 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋