I have never talked to this guy in person,he goes to my college
I sent him a couple of weird emails about three years ago, and he replied right away to the first two, but then he never replied to thethird one ....
in those emails, i didnt tell him i like him or anything ..
but how do i move on?? i am guessing he will be graduating in May, I have been feeling really dead inside. For past 4 years, i have lived with the hope of seeing him around even if i dont see him everyday, now i dont know what to do ....
I dont necessarily think I want to be in a relationship with him, because we are quite opposite, but I really wanted to be friends with him...
he stares at me ALL THE TIME.. and when I catch him looking, he usually looks away now, but earlier he wouldnt even look away... the staring pattern has been going for past 4 years too
I have seen psychiatrists and counselors regarding it, and I also meditate . I have tons of hobbies, I dont know what else I could do to keep myself occupied
2007-02-16 02:42:59 · 4 answers · asked by rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no i am not saying he loves me or I love him.....
we dont even know each other!!
i am just saying, i dont know how to move on!
2007-02-16 02:56:00 · update #1
you have to get to know him and let him get to know you.
the rest is up to you.
noboby can tell you what to do, becaus ein the end, your going to do what you think its right, and what you feel is right to you.
you have to meet someone else.
find someone.
2007-02-16 02:48:35 · answer #1 · answered by Carol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I would just learn to forget... everything in life is a lesson to learn... It is obvious that the person involved doesn't want to be your friend... He may have been experimenting and now has caused you pain because you wanted something more and he did not. A true friend would have answered or a nice person would have said "no I am sorry."
Like with everything in life you have to look forward and not in the past. What done is done and you have many other positive things in your life. Just let go
2007-02-16 02:55:55 · answer #2 · answered by De 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel weird,opposites really do attract.If you liked someone who is almost exactly like you..life would be boring.Plus,you really can't say you know All he likes if you don't know him all that well.Now,If he has a gf and his eyes are wandering to you..then, there's a small chance that he might not be exclusive with this gf.He may also not be happy with her at all.Roll up your sleeves and go find out!He might turn you of in some way.You never know until you try.Keep in mind that you might still find him an extremely attractive "BUDDY".
2007-02-16 02:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by aauntrobin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really loves u he w'd approach u,y u want to worry about him.
2007-02-16 02:52:32 · answer #4 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋