i have known this guy for the past three months n we both get along quite well.our talks are never-ending?

Question

he calls me daily&we both talk for hours.
he has told me casually that he likes my company very much and that friends like me are very rare to find.
he even comes to school when he has no class just to meet me.he really finds me cute.he even asked many times what i would be doing on valentines day.
he knows i had a crush on his best friend and he listened to all of it quite nicely.
we have talked a lot abt our futureand he would tell me how he would care for his would-be-wife.and he would also prove that he has the qualities what i look for in a guy
i really felt he liked me
but just a week ago he told me he has got a crush on someone else.i didnt show any of my dissapointment and responded quite happily as if it didnt bother me.but i do want something more than freindship.
but i did something silly earlier.his friends used to tease me by his name& once i shouted at him&said i never liked him&never would.but now i have started liking him

Answer 1

Obviously you are young and I think that is the reason for the confusion. It sounds like you started out as friends and I'm sure that's why he confided in you that he has a crush on someone else.

If you never told him how you felt about him then how is he supposed to know? If you like him, tell him. The only way you will ever know if you have a chance with him is if you are honest with him.

Good luck.

Answer 2

aww its funny how love works...

hmm well... if this guy tried to make you believe that he liked you but actually liked some other girl.. then he's not so perfect. esp since he hinted all those things about the "would be wife" thing.

hmm... yeah, just think about the reasons why you like him. sometimes its really just lust so you should consider it carefully before you do anything that must completely ruin ur friendship with him. Also, sometimes its a good idea to say, "i can do better" and actually raise your standards. =]

anyway, well mayb he's just saying he likes "some girl" and deep down he just made her up so you wouldnt hurt him (since he thought u liked someone already). hmm then it would be a good idea to tell him how you feel. :D and its a happy ending.

hmm.. why dont you like ur crush anymore? what happened there?

Answer 3

so maybe because of the shouting at him, he thinks you aren't interested that way. and he made up the whole crush thing to make you jealous and get with him. just try telling him you like him no matter how hard it is. you're taking a big risk but would you rather just listen to it all day and be worried about it? take the risk and see what happens.

Answer 4

It's old advice, but it still works - try honesty - it's the best policy. And remember - anything worth doing always begins with fear.

Answer 5

Tell him how you feel.