how can i move on with my life and stop worrying about love and pain in a relationship?

Answer 1

you just do baby girl, it's human to worry and play "what if" game. but you just do. that's what love is. hopefully the majority of the time of your relationship is a pleasant one. experience both. the joy and the pain. it will make you a better person and much stronger to face the reality of the world out there.

Answer 2

There are many ways in which you can move on in a situation like yours, all depends which one you are willing to try doing. dealing with love and pain, you have to make up your mind that you must let go and allow yourself the time to get over it, it may not come at once, but a matter of time. If you had been in a relationship for quite a while, it will take a longer process to develop, do something creative to take your mind and hurt from the situation that you came from and not to think about it so often. Take some time off and go somewhere and be alone where you can deal with it and decide to not let your pass stop you from a better future. Your future is far more precious than what your pass had done to you. So move on and be optimistic that you can make it no matter what happens, you are valuable to the world, God has someone out there who will cherish you the way you should be cherish.

Answer 3

are still in the relationship or not?

If not then u need to get back in the swing of things, your hobbies, time out with your girlfiends, travelling, etc. Relationships come and go.

If you are still in it, then you need to talk it over with that person and until that happens is when you can really move on.

Answer 4

when it's your time god will put a good man in your life set your standards high and don't settle for less in the mean time love yourself if you don't on one else will