i'm really really freaked out...im a 16 year old male and the worst thing that could've happened to me did. my mom walked in on me while i was "playing with myself" this morning. she saw everything, i didn't hear her. i was lieing on the bed, pants at my ankles, going at it full force. she walked in, was startled, and said, "oh my god" and quickly walked back out and closed the door. we obviously didnt talk about it at all yet. i dont know if i'll ever be able to look her in the eyes again im sooo embarrassed. any advice on how i can go on living (sarcastic of course but this is really really bad!!)
2007-02-16 02:07:53 · 8 answers · asked by phil j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dont worry she wont ask u anything because it is quite common in this age. she will know that u are grown up and she may have some restiction on u but ofcourse u are her son. dont feel bad. it will be set right in few days . every thing will be quite normal as before
2007-02-16 02:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by bhargavi y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me say from a mothers perspective, we know that our sons do that, but it is still a shock to see it. One thing is for sure now, she will always knock before she enters your room again. I'm not sure anything needs to be discussed about it. It is what it is. She shouldn't just walk into a room when the door is closed. Lesson learned.
In a few days it will get easier. I know it doesn't help you today, but it will be OK. Just lay low if you're too embarrassed to look at her. She is embarrassed too, believe me. It will blow over.
2007-02-16 02:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure your mum is feeling as embarrassed as you. its a perfectly normal activity and whilst i'm sure she knows u do it, it must have been a shock for her to see you at it 'full force'!!! she prob doesnt want to talk about it either, so just ignore it and soon it wont be such a big deal. maybe now would be a good time to broach the issue of having a lock on your bedroom door? or you could stick up a sign saying 'knock before you enter'? that'll be an indirect and less embarrassing way of u both acknowledging the situation?
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2007-02-16 02:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by third space 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Embarrassing, yes, but not a world-ending type thing. I'm sure your mom was probably aware that you do that kind of thing, but just didn't expect you to be doing that right then (after all you know your parents have sex (or else how would you be here?) but I'm sure you'd never want to walk in on them :D). She's probably just as embarrassed as you.
I don't think you need to have any kind of in-depth, heart-to-heart discussion about it. Just go up to your mom and ask, "Hey, can you knock from now on?" and don't worry anymore about it.
2007-02-16 02:22:46 · answer #4 · answered by Duende71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is feeling the same way you are, you need to think of her feelings as well. She probably doesn't know how to approach you about the situation either. Maybe she will start respecting your privacy alittle more now, and just won't walk in and stare, Good Luck. Think the worst and hope for the best.
2007-02-16 02:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy now. You're 16. Do you really think your mom believed you weren't doing it? The walking in part is embarrassing, definitely. That's all it is - embarrassing. I doubt she'll think less of you because you're doing something every male has done.
2007-02-16 02:13:13 · answer #6 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wanking is a normal thing in life...it's just that you could have locked your door...or at least closed the door. You could apologize to your mother for getting caught and ask her to knock next time.
2007-02-16 02:28:14 · answer #7 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont discuss it with your mom, just go about your business and act like nothing happened, and lock the door next time.
2007-02-16 02:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by reene2g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋