i like my ex to bits. but now part of me thinks i dont wanna be with her and part of me misses her. part of me doesnt wanna meet her or txt or ring her and part of me does. i dont know what to do any more. my ex finished with me 5 weeks ago. she says to me she really likes me, has got feelings for me and wants to be with me but for now can only give me friendship. i wa ssupposed to meet my ex on valentines day and i turned her down and then we argued and reaaranged for yesterday night. when i met her i showed little intrest in her compared to usual. i used to txt and ring her alot but not any more. usually in the cinema i grab her hand an tiggle her leg but this time i did nothing kept my hand 2 my self. so instead she kept on grabbing my hand tiggling my leg and even tried coming in for a kiss and i moved away quick she come in for a kiss after a long time i was suprised. what do i do? can i get her back cos i kinda like her to bits i would love to be with her help please
2007-02-16 01:35:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I see you in the same situation as i was..
But I decided to stick to my girl.
I love her for whatever she is..
Loving is a nice feeling and
Manliness is giving(not expecting love),i read somewhere.
When i was full of expectations our relationship soared.
Now I m used to her ways ant i have started seeing her as a erring child...
Pls get on with her,till yur last breath........
2007-02-16 01:43:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said for now she can only give you friendship. Then when you honor her wish to be friends and pull away, she pulls more towards you by grabbing your hand, tickling your leg, and then tried to kiss you. I can understand how confused this can make you feel. Appears as if she is being wishy washy (says one thing, then means another) and is playing with your emotions. Do not put yourself in the position where she is allowed to treat you this way. Either she wants to be your girlfriend or she wants to just be your friend. Ask her, which is it? If she says just friends, then tell her ok. Then if I were you I would not make myself so available to her. In other words, do not be there for her every time she calls, limit your calls to her to almost none, and get busy with other friends. I bet she will start to miss you and realise that these games she has been playing with you are not working. Do this, trust me it works. Good luck to you!
2007-02-16 10:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds a bit confused if she is on the one hand telling you it is over and can just offer you friendship and on the other trying to kiss you... why don't you just sit down, turn off the telly and have an honest and open conversation with her and ask what she wants. If it fits in with what you want then great, if not, then by all means be nice to each other but don't sit around waiting for her to change her mind in the future. Life's too short.
2007-02-16 09:45:29 · answer #3 · answered by JoJi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the biggest things I think people have a hard time with after a relationship has ended is figuring out if you loved them or if you were just used to them being there. If it didn't work out the first time, what makes you think it will last this time? Also, don't be fooled by the make-up sex thing. Instead of being touchy feely with you, she should be talking to you about what she thinks your relationship is going to need to make it work this time. You should be doing the same. If you haven't figured out why it didn't work the first time, you will be doomed this time too. Why waste anymore of your lives on it. The sooner you figure it out, the sooner the rest of your life will start. "Kinda" liking her shouldn't be enough for you to want her back.
2007-02-16 09:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by in2one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not take her out for a dinner and talk 2 her.Say what ur heart does not ur mind.
2007-02-16 09:42:24 · answer #5 · answered by Shaza Finlayson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut to the chase ... go get her, she's waiting......good luck.
2007-02-16 09:40:00 · answer #6 · answered by ozzy chik... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋