Do you think that a is just plain out dumb when he purposes to a girl that he HARDLY knows...like he just meet her, DOESN'T know absolutely NOTHING about her, dates her, still DON'T know her for like 4 months...asks her to marry him...
Do you think a guy can be dumb for porposing to a girl within 4 months time, and he don't know the girl???
Do you think she would be dumb for saying yes?
*in my opinion, i think its plain out stupid! Not hardly knowing eachother and then getting married...you can have a Bad marriage. I'd give it a year, till "they" get divorced. Maybe 2 IF they are lucky.
What do you think???
2007-02-16 01:27:14 · 19 answers · asked by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What if he only wants to marry her cuz she's pretty, he "loves" her, she's easy, and she is has a sense of "humor"?
What do you call that???
2007-02-16 01:34:24 · update #1
Im not the jealous type...i think its just plain dumb!
2007-02-16 01:34:56 · update #2
Yes! 100% totally agree with you. That is a huge step to take and one not to be taken lightly. You need to know the person that you intend to spend the rest of your life with.
2007-02-16 01:30:13 · answer #1 · answered by Marjory Stewart Baxter 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you watching Jerry Springer or something? I am not sure how I feel about it. I know people, that decided after two dates... that they were meant for each other, got married, and have been married for .... 15 plus years.
I know others... who got to know each other, lived together, got married.. and couldn't last past the first difficult five years.
Marriage is simply about commitment. Never quitting even when the odds are against you. And, unfortunately, because of so many technological advances ... and woman's suffrage... marriages aren't lasting as long as they use to... I really don't think it has anything to do with the amount of time people have known each other...
Maybe not knowing each other is what keeps the marriage new and exciting past the first five years?
2007-02-16 09:33:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mizhani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, its dumb. But there is such a thing as love at first sight. And I have seen people getting married after only a few days of meeting one another and they are still married. Been married for ten years already. You never know about things like this.
2007-02-16 09:32:52 · answer #3 · answered by summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I got married within 6 months of meeting each other, and we've been married 4 years. My parents did the same, married for almost 34 years. It's risky, but not an absolute recipe for failure.
2007-02-16 09:32:03 · answer #4 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is not very good to marry someone after 4 monts of dating because the true colours of the person has not yet come out. There is a possibility that it will end up in divorce, but can also work out because if the girl aims to please him then they will have a chance
2007-02-16 09:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by Alise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people go with their first instinct. There is actually a website put together by a guy with a very unique view on relationships it is ideagasms.com. He advocates going with the feeling in your gut and never second guessing yourself. It is worth a look and the latest newletter that the creator sent out focuses on this subject.
2007-02-16 09:39:50 · answer #6 · answered by Wicket_Big_Mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to get to know someone for a long time before marriage, find out how they handle day to day matters, how they handle big problems, how they treat other people, how they manage money, what their ambitions and goals are, how they feel about family, how much they contribute to keeping up a home, etc. It is risky to marry someone you don't know well.
That's what I believe.
2007-02-16 09:32:55 · answer #7 · answered by lifeisagift 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it sounds a bit odd but whatever makes them happy. I think I would like to know the person properly before marriage, but then thats just me and I know of people who have been together for a matter of weeks and who are already engaged to one an other.
2007-02-16 09:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to be mean but it sounds like u'r jealous. I do believe in love at first site........but I also believe that you should get to know a person (including living with them) before marriage. It sounds very romantic ......... but I don't see the romance lasting. Let them know that it's cost a lot more to get out of a marraige than it does to get into one. I'm not only talking about cash, I'm talking about emotions, property, family............
2007-02-16 09:35:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with you on the part about divorce. But at the same time it sounds like you are jealous.
2007-02-16 09:31:59 · answer #10 · answered by to_sassy4_u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋