hi am wondering if you guys could help me am a bit confused. i used to like my ex to bits and i still do. but now part of thinks i dont wanna be with her and part of me misses her. part of me doesnt wanna meet her or txt or ring her and part of me does. i dont know what to do any more. my ex finished with me 5 weeks ago and she got with me after spliiting with her 4 year bf. she says to me she really likes me, has got feelings for me and wants to be with me but for now can only give me friendship. i wa ssupposed to meet my ex on valentines day and i turned her down and then we argued and reaaranged for yesterday night. when i met her i showed little intrest in her compared to usual. i used to txt and ring her alot but no any more. usually in the cinema i grab her hand an tiggle her leg but this time i did nothing kept my hand 2 my self. so instead she kept on grabbing my hand tiggling my leg and even tried coming in for a kiss and i moved away quick. what do i do? can i get her back
2007-02-16 01:25:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you want her or just someone?
Souns to me more like the latter. In which case move on- don't call or text, let her live her life and get on with yours. This hot and cold relationship could be holding you both back from meeting someone very special - someone you are sure you want to call and text and see!
2007-02-16 01:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break ups are hard. It sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. If she keeps you as her friend.. you are pretty much at her disposal and she can see who ever else she wants. Like she could just keep you around until she finds something better to do. Its normal to miss her sometimes. Just do what is best for you, but I wouldn't have very high expectations for the relationship.
2007-02-16 01:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by Tracy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you guys really need to take a break. Without contact for a while... You really are confused & without time to sort out your feelings, you will remain in this state of mind!
2007-02-16 01:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont have her back unless you are 100 per cent she its her you want. DONT have her back just cos you are lonely >>> thats just habit.
Have a break and get stronger and used to being on your own. Then see how you feel when you are less confused and desperate for company.
2007-02-19 03:22:31 · answer #4 · answered by just me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she wants you cause she does not have her old boyfriend of 4 yr.
ditch her and get on with your life, no contact what so ever, she id not good for you and you know it. if in a few months she and you can as adults have normal conversations about seeing each other socially then OK but for now lay low and away for her.
2007-02-16 01:36:31 · answer #5 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds like you have alot of hurt for her leaving you. or maybe you are scared of being alone. i went through this with my ex. as much as i thought of him i couldnt bear to kiss or touch him. i had to much hurt but i didnt want to be alone. you get used of having someone around and when its gone u go awol. maybe you should look deeper inside yourself and find out if its just loneliness you are suffering with not just heartache of a split. good luck xx
2007-02-16 01:36:19 · answer #6 · answered by lipz20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confused or what??? no wonder your really mixed up- i was thoroughly confused reading your question and not sure what it is either of you want. dont you think that if your relationship was meant to be at least one of you would know for sure thats what you wanted? seems to me your both unsure of any future togetherness. maybe its time to move on.
2007-02-16 02:40:11 · answer #7 · answered by denise m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shemoved in for a kiss and tried to get ur attention surely she likes u. on the other hand she could be a tease. sorry!
2007-02-16 01:32:38 · answer #8 · answered by amy_uk2k1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never ever understood why any human being would want their ex back!
2007-02-19 23:27:20 · answer #9 · answered by DikiDoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋