At school my friends say i flirt with all of the guys is that a bad thing, i don't mean to flirt with them either i just have fun and be myself and guys think i like them when i dont is that a bad thing??
2007-02-16 01:23:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There is a big difference between being friendly and outgoing and being overly flirtatious.
You know what the difference is, and you know where the line is too. Flirting with everyone probably will make you look like a tease or like you're "asking for it." However, if you're simply outgoing and friendly -- your friends are just jealous of the attention you're getting, and that's typical.
Just be YOU and be sure you have enough respect for yourself and others to make sure you're only flirting with the one boy you're really into.
2007-02-16 01:39:01 · answer #1 · answered by mistaken4sane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it could be bad . Just try and find a better way to talk to boys without flaunting yourself . Most likely they think you are flaunting your body . Just have fun with out flaunting your body. You most likely are pretty and people will get jealous . Plus one day something bad can happen and they say she wanted it , she was always flirting with me and teasing me with her body . Just be careful there are bad people out there of all ages . That doesn't mean stop talking or flirting just back off some . Plus when a guy sees a girl like that they won't want to be with them . GOOD LUCK !!! Be careful .
2007-02-16 09:40:09 · answer #2 · answered by Me777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the power that we girls just got, use it...but be very smart about it. You don't want to flirt in a way people will think you're really doing more with those guys then just flirting if you know what i mean. I flirt..it's a natural thing, just don't be easy and be very protective of yourself.
2007-02-16 09:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by BiHgirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did the same thing and everybody, even the teachers thought I was flirting, but I wasn't. And no it's not bad. Just ignore what people say, I did and they finally stopped.
2007-02-16 09:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see nothing wrong with "casual" flirting, most of us have done it as one time or another.
If you feel the need to "flirt with everybody", then it seems to me that you need the attention because you are either immature or insecure.
I don't think "flirting" is a bad thing, like everything else, only in excess! Have fun.
2007-02-16 09:29:20 · answer #5 · answered by Mugsy's Place 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its never a bad thing to flirt! Flirting is fun and enjoyable, just be careful not to lead guys on too much or they'll start to see thigns that aren't even there.
LB
2007-02-16 09:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by Love Bites 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like me. It's really mostly the persoanlity you have. Most girls that are very outgoing are like this. It isnt always a bad thing, but when you get a boyfriend that has to change. But if you needed one you could get one fast, the guys love the flirting!
2007-02-16 09:27:54 · answer #7 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are perceiving your outgoing personality as flirting. I would try to be a bit more careful around those you don't like, because you may be asking for trouble down the road.
2007-02-16 09:29:13 · answer #8 · answered by Jewel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel.All through school people called me some nasty names. I am a flirt to and people take it the wrong way. As long as you don't cross any lines than i don't think its a problem.
I really hate it when people judge you for being yourself.
2007-02-16 09:30:42 · answer #9 · answered by sivaspyder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya sometimes i can be bad theres a time and place for everything and you dont want to send the wrong signal like your easy or something like that. so i can see how the guys would be getting the wrong mesage maybe you need to tone it down a few .
2007-02-16 09:28:58 · answer #10 · answered by cinerella19772 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋