Ok. The girl I like does make me mad at times and now since she lives somewhere else, I don't see any point in me tryin to be nice to her or be polite. So now I do cuss and argue with her and she sees it as a turn on. I don't get it. Why when I am mean, she likes it. I admit that I still like her very much and I like it even more now because she dosen't get mad when I cuss and stuff. Why is it like this, I am wondering? I am a lesbiana and I was wondering why SOME girls are like this?
2007-02-16 00:55:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ok again, she is not heterosexual. she is interested in girls. thats why we argue most of the time, because she will say something about this particular girl
2007-02-16 01:01:12 · update #1
There was an 80's song. the chorus was
" you have to be cruel to be kind."
2007-02-16 00:58:43 · answer #1 · answered by ron s 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if you're a lesbian or not, some people just get off on aggression. Just look at how some police officers act when a perp gets rowdy or at the way audiences at pro wrestling matches get or what happens when Bush's military leaders get down in the ready room.
2007-02-16 01:00:05 · answer #2 · answered by Reo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because now she sees that you are being yourself, not some fake niceness you tried to make her like you. She sees that you may actually respect her enough to show your true opinion, even though it's different from hers. Some girls jsut like strong personalities and you're showing yours.
Just be yourself, don't go in the other direction and try to be even more nasty and harsh because you think she likes that.
Respect her by being truthful and true to who you are.
2007-02-16 01:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by FTW 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just asked this same question and the answer is the same, if you think you are going to get a heterosexual girl by talking rough to her, you are wrong. Be yourself and find a nice lesbian girl to play with.
2007-02-16 00:59:53 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
some people like that for some reason that i can't flathom, if your nice to some people they take that as a sign of weakness and others of you treat them like dirt they like it.. i don't get it.
2007-02-16 02:01:22 · answer #5 · answered by ♥lois c♥ ☺♥♥♥☺ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Answer your own nonsense question
2007-02-16 00:58:52 · answer #6 · answered by Jesus M 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋