Hey, there was this girl that I liked but while she was here, I didn't get anywhere. She had a boyfriend but she recently broke up with him. While she was here, I was being nice and polite and alll that stuff to her and it got me nowhere. Now she lives in another city and i just act however i want to act now. I don't have to be nice and polite now that shes gone. When i talk to her online or on the phone, I hsve been more rude and cussing and stuff to her and she says that she likes it. She likes me to cuss and stuff at her. Says its a turn on. Can one of you girls explain this to me? I don't get it. Oh yeah, for people that might ask, I am a lesbian. Oh yeah, and I do plan to transfer to where she is for college (for educational reasons)and I'm guessing I will be around her a lot more. So...keep up being mean?
2007-02-16 00:28:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well yeah I do get mad at her when she talks about other girls or her ex boyfriend and I will cuss at her.
2007-02-16 00:37:03 · update #1
she is not hetero and it's not being something im not, it's me just not being polite to get her attention and telling her how i really feel which is pissed
2007-02-16 00:38:39 · update #2
I don't really understand you guys' relationship.
Remind me again why you guys are cussing and stuff. Is it because you're mad at each other or you think it's funny?
Man, you've got me all confused.
2007-02-16 00:34:04 · answer #1 · answered by LadySingsTheBlues 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you simply be yourself instead of something you are pretending to be. You can't keep that up forever and then what?
Also, what kind of a future are you expecting with a heterosexual girl? Why not get involved with someone you have the potential to have a relationship with, be yourself and enjoy life little more than it sounds like you have.
2007-02-16 00:36:07 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only real way you can 'get' somebody, and stay with them, is to be yourself. It takes too much wasted energy to try to be something you aren't and it won't last long anyway once she finds out you're pretending.
Life is too short for drama and bull-poo.
Be yourself, have fun, and play safe.
2007-02-16 00:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by FTW 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋