wat would you do if life felt so unbearable like today in scholl i slipped in the hallway no one evevn helped they luaghed and called me fat nd it hurt to much to bear im a strong person but i dont know what to do should i move cuz ever sense i moved to ny life has suxed for me so much! i dont know what to do~~~
2007-02-16 00:02:20 · 8 answers · asked by ♥kristie♥ 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Falling happens all the time. this week I fell when I was in my college parking. However, people can be mean and laughing at you was not a good thing. Things like this can happen, just let it go, move on, keep on being strong I know things will get better, even though you dont see it that way.
2007-02-16 00:11:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? This will continue to happen cause people are always the same no matter where you go. You don't even know that some people laugh cause they would feel ashamed or embarassed to help you so they laugh at you instead.
No you do not move because you need to show you are stronger than the insults and the ones who throw them at you. At that point just ignore them.
I know cause I grew up a school district where I was a minority and some stuff I got embarrassed about but I chose to ignore it. If they got a problem with me, that's their problem, not mine. That goes for you to.
You'll make it.
2007-02-19 23:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by Uncle Remus 54 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you're going through right now is a very temporary time in your life that most all adults can remember experiencing when they were in school.
Many young people haven't emotionally matured enough to be able to completely emphathize with the pain of others, and you just experienced what it's like to be on the receiving end of this callousness. If you stop and think, you may have been guilty of this kind of thing yourself at some critical time. This level of maturity comes at different times for different people.
It's not something you should dwell on any longer than it takes to get over your hurt feelings. Focus on positive things in your life and don't let this bog you down. Let it serve as a lesson for how much we should appreciate our friends and loved ones.
Don't let a few ignorant kids damage your self esteem and cause you to have self doubt. Can you imagine if the world's greatest people had let criticism and ridicule slow them down? You wouldn't have a cell phone, or be watching tv today.
The fact that you asked for advice and help for how to handle it, tells me that your an intelligent kid and I know you're going to go on and do well.
Good luck and all my best wishes.
2007-02-16 08:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by nova30180 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was also teased in school. realize that kids tease and laugh because of their own insecurities. its like as long as someone else is getting picked on i am not. try standing up for yourself. or just completely ignore them, you are going to realise that out in this world success begins in a persons heart-- it is all in your state of mind. And believe me once people graduate high school they grow up very fast..for now study study study then go to college and do more studying and when you are making 60,000 or more or a lot more those same kids will be jealous of you.
keep your head up stand tall and reach for the sky girl
your friend bill
2007-02-16 08:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by trybebill 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try not to give them the chance to feel that they succeeded in preying you upon; you know ppl admire the strong ones, just surprise them that you are not that the one who easily been preyed even if you pretend doing that.
God strengthen you
2007-02-16 08:34:17 · answer #5 · answered by michellen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this is what i would do.Ignorance should be delt with ignorance .Screw them do all in your power to be what you want to be.I love like the time Kirsty Ally got on stage with her award and told all her loser class mates that dist her in school to read em and weep.Hun do your best to be your best cause they will all be pumpin your Gas someday.Keep your head up and have faith that the lord will point you in the right direction to make them all remember and regret what they did to you in the past.
2007-02-16 08:19:25 · answer #6 · answered by mrtitletown 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bare with it honey. The ones who will be your friends didn't laugh they've been there to. Life moves quickly, this to shall pass.
2007-02-20 07:19:01 · answer #7 · answered by SANDI P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't necessarily have to move just stay strong and put up with them and act like they don't bother cause then they might stop if you're really brand new to a school then that's regular for new people just don't give up on yourself
2007-02-16 08:12:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋