anything could happen condoms are not 100% effective
2007-02-15 23:56:14 · 15 answers · asked by non active 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not 100% effective before marriage either!
2007-02-15 23:59:19 · answer #1 · answered by mary k 2 · 6⤊ 1⤋
That's crazy, you can get married if you don't want to have kids. There are oral contraceptives that work for 99% and adding a condom would make it very effective. If you really don't want kids, guys could get a vasectomy or women can get sterilized. Marriage isn't intended to give you the certificate to just go and have kids, if you think that's what marriage is about, don't even go there. Marriage is about love and wanting to commit yourself fully to the person you love, till death.( and for the Mormons: and beyond)
2007-02-16 08:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uhm, no but abortion sure is! But seriously, condoms are 97% effective and hormonal birth control is over 99% effective, used in combination makes it very hard to get pregnant. There's also things like sterilisation. My lover is getting a vestectomy for me! It's not 100%, but it's a risk we're willing to take. ;) Yes, anything could happen, but having babies is certainly always optional. I can tell you, no matter what happens, I'm never ever having children. My uterus is not a housing unit!
2007-02-16 08:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what dose that have to do with marriage. If you dont want kids...DONT HAVE SEX...you dont have to have kids when your married. I was married for over 5 years and never had a kid, No Condoms are diffently not 100% effective....so dont have sex. it's as simple as that. U can still have a condom not work and have a child out of wedlock
2007-02-16 08:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
How about I get married to a man who doesn't want kids either and one of us gets sterilized? And if you think babies are the sole purpose of marriage you have a very different view than most people.
Besides woman now days are having babies LONG before marriage. Which I don't understand for various reasons.
Is there a question in your post or am I just suppose to talk about what ever comes to mind?
2007-02-16 09:18:23 · answer #5 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey....I get where your coming from..don't get pregnant if your not married....and your right....It's hard for me to believe women and men will have casual sex without using condoms...... Without using condoms the chance's of disease quadruples and the chance's of women's tee-tee's looking like Willie Nelson and a man's penisorous ending up looking like Uma Thurmans feet.......DDDDaaaaaammmmmnnn...Now thats a visual......
Willie and Uma
2007-02-16 08:28:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as long as you love your partner it doesnt matter and you can have kids when ever you wan them before or after the marriage their isnt a wrong and a right time to have kids but in my opinion would to have kids after you get married because then you would fell like you have a closer relationship to your husband.
2007-02-16 08:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by hayleyluvinrobert 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
women can still get married and live a life without children until their ready. and even if your not married its still possible for you to have a child because you made a big mistake in your life with a guy.
2007-02-16 08:05:55 · answer #8 · answered by mcrgirl 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you aren't ready to have kids do not have sex, you can be married, use birthcontrol, no it's not 100% but unless you plan to not have sex until you want kids then nothing is.
2007-02-16 08:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
The purpose of getting married is not to have KIDS!!!!!! Not everyone has kids let alone want them.
2007-02-16 09:17:10 · answer #10 · answered by I Like Grapes 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋